This is just Wrong

[AlexanderTheGreat]

So someone who I consider to be my best friend (i'm gonna use colours as names for obvious reasons) who is called RED has gone against his word and has done something where I don't feel I can forgive him and I don't want to know him.
A while back we were just having a chat and the topic moved on to ethics. He said he would never take advantage of an intoxicated girl. I agreed. I would just like to say at this point that he is quite older than me. I'm 15 and he's 19.
Last Tuesday we were at a party. He had been drinking but he wasn't drunk at all. Not even tipsy. Other people at the party were drunk and they were my age. Someone who I am calling GREEN and is also 14 told me that she was drunk and she felt RED took advantage of this. He kissed her and made out with her. For starters HE'S 19 AND SHE'S 14!! But also he said that he would never take advantage of someone's lack of control when drinking.
Now someone who I am gonna call WHITE who I also call my bestfriend, got drunker than any of us. She's 15. She was throwing up. She passed out and couldn't remember much of the night... Except, when RED was helping her clear herself up, he started to kiss her. And then he took her top & bra off. I was sitting just outside the door of the bathroom at this point making sure she was ok, I didn't know what he was doing behind the door. He knew what he was doing. The drink didn't influence him in anyway. I only found this out today.
Both GREEN and WHITE feel he took advantage of their state.
After hearing all of this I don't feel I can be friends with him anymore.

What's your guy's view on the matter?

[Second Chance]

I agree with you that it is best that you do not hang out with Red anymore since you both do not share core values. Red really sounds like a shady person, and to do stuff with a 14 year old is really inappropriate. You sound like a really decent person, and it is great that you were there for Green and White unlike Red who gladly took advantage of them in their bad state. In the end of the day friends should be people who bring out the best in us and people who we feel comfortable with. It is pretty clear that Red is not such a person, and he really does not seem like he is someone worth your time. If you and Red have been friends for a while, then it is going to be tough to separate from him. But, if the guy is doing things which you find repulsive, then Red has made the choice not to be your friend anymore because he is doing things which are not right. Beyond that, if you stay friends with Red, then there is a good chance that Green and White will no longer want to be associated with you. You have to make a choice as to whether you will stick with your core values and distance yourself from Red, or whether you will compromise who you are and turn a blind eye or tolerate Red's behavior. My suggestion is that you should be supportive towards Green and White and leave Red to his own devices because he made a bad choice and will have to live with it. Green and White are the victims, and they need your support more than anything.

[CosmicNoodle]

Well that guys a dick, he clearly took advantage of them, and ppthe age difference is fucking huge.

I'd stay away from him

[Gamma Male]

Well that guys a dick, he clearly took advantage of them, and ppthe age difference is fucking huge.

I'd stay away from him

^^

Maybe you should talk with white and green and discuss whether or not you should report him to the police.

[Ben_Frost]

He took advantage of them, he's a pedophile. Get away from that bundle of trouble as soon as possible.