she didnt even tell me

[thatgothgirluknow]

my grandma decided she doesnt want to take care of me any more and so she called my mom to tell her that she wanted her to take me (my mom left me when i was younger) and my mom called to ask me why she wanted me to live with her and i honestly dont know why he last thing she said before her bf broke up with her yesterday was how i was a burden and worthless did i do something wrong? does she not like me any more she still hasn't talked to me but she told my mom the sooner i left the better i just dont know whats going on her bf i was so close to just left to and i just feel like i always do something wrong cause everyone leaves me am i bad :confused: ? i really dont wana leave my home town for florida but there talking about me leaving as soon as tommrow :(

[Osama Gulryz]

Look Jordan, It isn't your fault but as you said your Grandma BF broke up with her, so she will be up set, and I think right now going to your mom house won't be bad, she is your mom after all Jordan, no matter what happens but your mom will love and when she left you when you were younger, maybe she have some problems to face and can't take care of more then one child at same time but don't think she don't love you, so right now mom house is perfect, maybe some time after when your grandma normal again, you can return to her, Jordan everything happens for good, and I am still here for you ,don't get worried and don't blame yourself

[Second Chance]

Your situation is a tough one, and I feel terrible for you. Going under the assumption that your grandmother is over 50 and possibly over 60 I am guessing that she might not have the energy and stamina to handle a teenager which is why she feels it is best for you to be with your mother. Perhaps over time a gulf developed between your grandmother and you in terms of your worldview and the kinds of things in which you both believe which caused your grandmother to think it was best that you go with your mum. There could be a real issue of your grandmother, despite her age, not being mature enough to handle the responsibilities of a kid and putting the need for companionship over that of family. Without knowing the whole situation and the background of how you ended up with your grandmother and how she is like and how you are like it is tough to figure out what is best for your future. With that being said, I definitely think your grandmother has handled this situation the wrong way especially if you have lived with her for a long while. I am not sure if you have had run ins with your grandmother before and if thee was tension that had happened before your grandmother's decision. Taking your post at face value, I think your grandmother should have at least talked to you about her feelings and given you a chance to work things out before making a drastic decision. Chances are the situation is not so much about you as much as it is about your grandmother.

At this stage if it is set in stone that you are going to live with you mum, then all you can do now is prepare yourself for the move and make sure you get yourself as organized as possible. Make sure you have all your school records, personal belongings, and anything else you need as you transition from your grandmother's home to that of your mother's. It is going to be tough to leave your friends behind which is why you should let them know what's going on and make sure you have their contact information so that you all can stay in touch until you can establish yourself in your new home.

I really hope things work out for you and that you can find a supportive environment at your new home.