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dreamofdante
August 28th, 2014, 05:56 AM
People tell me I'm a really sweet guy with a great personality and some people say that I'm a good looking guy. I don't agree with the latter but anyway. I've been trying to get dates with girls since I was 13 and it's never worked out. I'll be 19 in four months and I was just wondering if it's normal to be rejected by every single girl for six years straight. And yes I haven't kissed anyone so I haven't come close to anything.
Gumleaf
August 28th, 2014, 06:08 AM
I'm not prepared to say if it's normal or not. That all depends on a few things. How much have you tried? Have you asked out the right type of girls, meaning girls who suit you? Have you developed friendships with them first etc? There is a saying in the back of my mind that I hear all the time being 'nice guys finish last'. So often I tend to believe it because I see all these lovely girls date badish guys and stuff. But the important thing is to not give up and keep trying and be positive. You never know, the next girl you ask out might be the one who says yes.
dreamofdante
August 28th, 2014, 06:13 AM
I'm not prepared to say if it's normal or not. That all depends on a few things. How much have you tried? Have you asked out the right type of girls, meaning girls who suit you? Have you developed friendships with them first etc? There is a saying in the back of my mind that I hear all the time being 'nice guys finish last'. So often I tend to believe it because I see all these lovely girls date badish guys and stuff. But the important thing is to not give up and keep trying and be positive. You never know, the next girl you ask out might be the one who says yes.

I've asked out hundreds of women. Real life, online, etc. I've been through all kinds of girls really. I like to know their personality and who they are before I want them because if they're rude or off putting then I find them unattractive. And maybe a helpful bit of information is the last girl I've asked out was in February and that ended with her leaving me for her ex because I was just something to fill her time. Hope this helps, pal.