I'm gay

[llwoahll]

I'm happily gay and still wondering like why the frick don't guys like me

[Jack russell dad]

Oohh i hear ya. Prob here is there is NO gay guys here. So im single too.

[CrazyPerson101]

I'm happily gay and still wondering like why the frick don't guys like me


There is no telling why. It seems once you've finally found out your sexuality, there isn't anyone that likes you ( well when I say you, I mean anyone in general ). It could be a number of things : 1 lotsa guys maybe str8

2. you maynot be that persons type or something of said nature

3. they don't see you as bf material but wanna be just friends

the list goes on....

[Rayquaza]

Guys won't automatically just be attracted to you once you've come out, especially due to the fact that there is a dramatic decrease in the amount of gay and bi guys compared to straight guys, and because there are a multitude of reasons to do with your own looks and personality that people consider. Guys aren't always looking for people to get with, regardless of the stereotype:
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[Faolan]

Congrats on accepting yourself. As for bf issues/lack of them, who knows, man. I'm in the same boat.

[Stronger]

Even if you are out and open, not all guys may be open with their sexuality, etc etc.

[Curious.]

I think others will not be out thus scared to show their true emotions

[KidStalion]

Some guys might think ur not their type

[Unde4dmau5]

There are numerous reasons that you aren't attracting other guys. The most logical reason could be there there aren't any around to attract. Now, it could also possibly be that they are there and possibly are already taken. Or they don't find you attractive. But with that, bear in mind also that people have different tastes. Just because one person may not find you attractive doesn't mean that everyone thinks likewise. It is just in human nature for us to react in that manner. And you're only 14, so you have plenty of time to find the right person for you. You may not be finding anyone now, but your Prince Charming will come eventually. It will all come in time.

[backjruton]

Heh... I feel the same, but a lot of the problem with me is right now I don't have the confidence or whatever to approach people... I don't know too many people in the annoying area I live in (and I don't really know anyone else even who lives in my street) so I'm not sure what everyone's tastes are, just those from school and college... :whoops:

[moonie]

There are definitely a lot more straight guys then gay/bi and that small amount of people that are gay/bi might still be figuring things out but never fear! You will find someone!

[AdamS]

I hear you man :/
Luckily we have some time still... Try be happy with yourself and someone special will be drawn to you in time ^_^

[llwoahll]

Ily guys so much

[TurboDieselBandit]

I'm happily gay and still wondering like why the frick don't guys like me

My sentiments exactly. Idk your situation exactly but as for me, I'm an outgoing person who will talk honestly with anyone, try to show I really care, I'm in good physical shape, healthy with good hygiene habits, considered intelligent by many people, active/adventurous and try hard not to have any ego(which I feel is true and can be seen). Despite this, only one guy has EVER said he liked me, but he wasn't my type, and the ones I like, I go out of my way to try to form a friendship with but they don't seem to care for me at all, even as a friend.


I had one great (or maybe awful) friend who could have easily been BF material. Both of us had some level of attraction to each other, enjoyed hanging out and regularly talked for hours. But he was a drama king about some things, pretty immature emotionally, a workaholic who never made time to spend together outside of school and had a need to show superiority in some way. Things quickly went south from there and we're no longer friends; in my opinion. He was like the worst friend with the most potential to be the best friend I ever had.