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Blood_Thorn
August 27th, 2014, 06:29 AM
Hey everyone, well this is sorta weird and embarrassing, but whenever I partake in sexual stuff including masturbating to take care of annoying urges, I can never seem to attain an orgasm or atleast experience one as others describe, no matter how hard I try. and so I was wondering, if anyone else was like this, or have any idea how to fix this?
Rayquaza
August 27th, 2014, 06:39 PM
May I just ask, how old are you?
Karkat
August 27th, 2014, 09:52 PM
This is called anorgasmia, and it could be either neurological, or psychological.
If you've had sexual trauma (rape, sexual assault, etc.) or sex was treated with a negative attitude when you were growing up, it might be psychological.
I feel like it's probably pretty unlikely for it to be neurological because that usually comes from MS or something along those lines.
I experience sexual dysfunction, and it's mostly psychological. I wouldn't say I have anorgasmia, but I definitely have difficulty reaching orgasm- especially with a partner.
Edit: Oh, and as far as a solution- usually you just have to get to the root of why you are the way you are, and figure out how to cope with it.
You can try to achieve this by yourself, or you can try to achieve this through therapy. Sadly, unless this continues to be a big deal into your twenties, I doubt a doctor can help much.
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