Will you give me 3 minutes before you leave?

[Rania]

This may be my last post, I'm completly lost, my mum is screaming on me every time I don't do what she orders, and my brother doesn't respect me at all, he calls me bitch sometimes, and every time I try to tell my parents, they say : I don't wanna listen to this ! I am tired of you guys ! Same story again !
I don't know what to do anymore, now I'm just sitting in my room, and crying...
You, who are reading this, I'm begging you, please, help me..

[Rania]

This may be my last post, I'm completly lost, my mum is screaming on me every time I don't do what she orders, and my brother doesn't respect me at all, he calls me bitch sometimes, and every time I try to tell my parents, they say : I don't wanna listen to this ! I am tired of you guys ! Same story again !
I don't know what to do anymore, now I'm just sitting in my room, and crying...
You, who are reading this, I'm begging you, please, help me..

I give up...

[Hudor]

Whoa Rania, please calm down. Don't give up. Life isn't that trivial. There are ups and downs always but they are a part of life and I believe we should deal with both in a balanced manner.
I believe I have always have these two choices:
1. count my blessings, realise how much worse I could be without them and move on.
2. crib and cry about what I cannot be or have and stagnate my thought-process.

I don't really know you or the extent of your problems but this is what I do when I'm depressed. I don't tell you to however stop feeling sad and venting out your emotions but what i ask of you is to avoid plummeting into negativity.

I am here to help and I guess many others are as well and if you feel like it you can talk to me any time. Cheer up :)

[Rania]

Whoa Rania, please calm down. Don't give up. Life isn't that trivial. There are ups and downs always but they are a part of life and I believe we should deal with both in a balanced manner.
I believe I have always have these two choices:
1. count my blessings, realise how much worse I could be without them and move on.
2. crib and cry about what I cannot be or have and stagnate my thought-process.

I don't really know you or the extent of your problems but this is what I do when I'm depressed. I don't tell you to however stop feeling sad and venting out your emotions but what i ask of you is to avoid plummeting into negativity.

I am here to help and I guess many others are as well and if you feel like it you can talk to me any time. Cheer up :)

Reading what you wrote was the best thing that happened to me today, but how.could you say : 'many people are here to help '? 37 views, and only one person said something

[Croconaw]

I'm sorry that is happening to you. I don't think the views are even accurate, though. People sometimes look at a thread, but they can't really contribute to the topic at hand. They decide not to say anything at all. You have to start thinking more positively, and things will get better. Everyone is here to help. I personally think that your family is rude, and they're the reason for your depression. Please don't say that this is your last post and don't do anything you'll regret. Life is worth living because everyone has a purpose. Some people just take longer than others.

[Plane And Simple]

Most if not all of the views in this topic, come from unregistered guests. Say 3 to 6 were VT registered members, to make an estimation.

Life is meant to be enjoyed in every way, we need to keep holding through bad times, becasue eventually, our life will be the best in the world. Just be strong, you'll get there.

[Hudor]

Reading what you wrote was the best thing that happened to me today, but how.could you say : 'many people are here to help '? 37 views, and only one person said something

the number of views doesn't correspond to the number of people taking interest. As Nick said they are usually guests. Also it is possible that registered members viewing the topic might not be able to think of something worthwhile to say or choose to not comment or some other reason

[Whight]

Reading what you wrote was the best thing that happened to me today, but how.could you say : 'many people are here to help '? 37 views, and only one person said something

Well, i'm reading. So HUGS!

I don't know you at all. but I would like to. So contact me and lets have a chat ^_^.
I'll bet 20$ I can cheer you up. <3

[Rania]

Thank you guys (: Words' influence o: (: <3

Well, i'm reading. So HUGS!

I don't know you at all. but I would like to. So contact me and lets have a chat ^_^.
I'll bet 20$ I can cheer you up. <3


* Hey (: I wanted to say thank you for what you wrote to me in the post if you remember. This afternoon, I kinda fixed it with mum, and now we're okay, and she's nice to me just like before.*
I guess you won 20 $ , but you won my smile too.*
#Big Hug <3

[ksdnfkfr]

Yous was one of those posts where I can't think of anything helpful to say. But that def doesn't mean I don't care. Maybe just saying I hope things get better for you (which I do) might help. And it does look like things have gotten better some which I'm glad about.

[Jack russell dad]

I dont offer much help but pm me anytime im here as a friend

[Rania]

That's nice, thank you (:

[jacko]

The vt community is really helpful and friendly, so you can rely on them :) I'm not the best at cheering up, but if you feel like chatting, send me a PM or something

[dreamofdante]

I'm here for you if you need me. I feel really awful that you're in so much pain and I would like to be here if you need someone to talk to.

[Ben_Frost]

There's no need to end your life now, you may feel in hell from what your family puts you through, but it's nothing that can last forever. Don't give up just yet, you still have a whole life to live ahead of you, and that's when your family won't be there to make you miserable.

[Perfectly Flawed]

It's only a short while before you can get away from your family and live the life you always wanted. While things may seem tough now, they will only empower you to become so much more in the future.

[plebble]

Do you want to talk about this? I'm not having a great time with life either. I Have this horrible thing on my mind all the time and I'm getting depressed and it's killing me. I'm a good listener and am willing to discuss feelings

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

I've been here before, and I can say it gets better. We urge you not to do anything rash, because suicide is an irreversible affair, once you take your life, you can't get it back. Trust me, thinhs can and will get better, but you need to put in a little effort yourself. A journey starts with a single step, a speech with a single word, and change, a choice.
You need to sit down with your parents, and tell them how you feel, what you want to do to yourself. No decent parent could simply stand by while their child is suffering, hurting on the inside. And they will do their best to help you.

[lovelycaleb]

Things seem to get worse before they get better. I've had days when literally I had so many emotions trying to be expressed I felt like just screaming hella loud. Suicide is a permanant solution to a temporary problem. If you ever need someone to talk to, VM/PM me