Am i gay? Confused

[lemondrop]

okay so i am 16 years old and i'm not sure witch orientation i am...
At school everyone eyes on me ,girls like me,some guys looking at me too. I am like the ''hottie'' and intelligent : nice clothes (t-shirts,pants,shoes), nice haircuts, watches.But i have a real problem about my orientation. I like guys and girls but i would prefer guys more.If i could choose from hot girl and hot guy i guess i would take hot guy and i can't decide am i BI or GAY please help!!
P.S. all relation i had was with girl (some kisses) but that was long long time ago if that even was a relations :D
I could experiment but hard to find a guy.I could get only girls...

[NudistKid]

I would say your bi but that's just my opinion

[ben5]

It depends, if you feel an attraction to boys and girls then your more likely to be bisexual, even though you like guys more you can still have a favorite when being bisexual. you would only really be gay if you didn't like girls and wouldn't want to have a sexual/physical relationship with them no matter how hot they are.

You could experiment to help you decide if you still like girls and if you're sure on guys... But you don't have to do that right now, just wait until your comfortable to experiment. And if you haven't come out already I would say wait until you're sure and comfortable with your orientation before telling your friends and everyone.

Hope it helps -Ben

[lemondrop]

okay 3 people says i am bi gonna wait for more replies

[Lewis1234]

I think your bi, leaning more towards guys, but remember, its down to your own judgement really, good luck! :)

[Matt_97]

I'd say bisexual with a leaning to guys and your own ego, don't think i've ever seen someone compliment themselves so much in a sentence (please know i'm being sarcastic and not an a-hole) ;) but in all honestly i'm saying bi with a preferance of guys, your feelings for girls may fade when you experiment but they may not; its your own journey of self discovery and only you can decide what your sexual orientation is. Good luck :)

[Curious.]

In think your character helps you to attract people, just be open...

[NeuroTiger]

I really think you are just being curious.
Certainly you look handsome...just keep being opened and why not try a girl?

[Tenoka]

Honestly it's hard to say whether or not you are. You could just be curious or you could be bisexual with a bit stronger preference to guys. Like Tomtiger said, keep being opened and don't be shy to see what you don't like and like. Go with a guy see if you like it, go with a girl and see if you like it.

[PythonProject]

Bi but a stronger preference to guys

[fast8]

You could be bi but you will fine out more later when you get with a guy or girl

[llwoahll]

I think your probably gay but still think you should try a girl again

[dame]

Honestly, we can't tell you what you are. That's something that you're going to have to discover yourself. People throwing out sexual orientations at you is only going to confuse you more. It takes time, & it's a frustrating process. I went through it, it's a tedious process, I'm not going to lie. Also, you don't have to experiment w/ girls & guys in order to discover yourself.

[Wyatt 13]

Honestly, we can't tell you what you are. That's something that you're going to have to discover yourself. People throwing out sexual orientations at you is only going to confuse you more. It takes time, & it's a frustrating process. I went through it, it's a tedious process, I'm not going to lie. Also, you don't have to experiment w/ girls & guys in order to discover yourself.



Jeez YOU are awesome giving advise man.:yes: