Do you believe this story?

[Cloud86]

Recently, some guy on a Relationship discussion board on another forum posted a story about a guy who, according to him, "had a cute boyish face and a good-looking muscular body", and this guy apparently got a lot of phone numbers from lots of girls just by visiting a party or whatever, and got girlfriends all the time just because they thought his combination of a cute face and a muscular body was "alluring" - and when the girls approached him he apparently mostly stood there and smiled and nodded, and the girls wanted to date him and have sex with him even though he was kind of bad at carrying on a conversation - and if he stayed at a party until the last dance, he would be approached by several girls at the same time who wanted to dance with him, he would get phone numbers from girls he had never talked to, and girls would look at him and giggle when he took a walk with his friends.
I find this story kind of absurd, because I know several extremely attractive girls who look like angels, and not even they are treated quite like this - it sounds like one of those stories that a guy makes up because he likes to pretend he is that guy himself.
Can a guy really have this much luck only because he has a cute face, a muscular body and often smiles, so that "tons of girls want to date him at once", even when he is clearly bad at talking to them and never takes any sort of initiative at all himself?
Has anyone actually seen this in real life over any extended periods?
Isn't it practically essential that a guy has conversational skills and can take charge himself in order to be noticed this much?

[Blood]

Yep, I know guys who are like this. They are completely dull yet very attractive by society's standards, and they somehow manage to pull women, or at least get laid.

Example of a bland, dull yet attractive male Jess knows IRL: I know a male specimen, we'll call him K. K is very attractive and somewhat funny in an immature way. K also has no depth whatsoever, and his personality is very dull. K cannot carry a conversation well. K dropped out of/got expelled from highschool, failed at getting his GED, and had 2 pregnancy scares with 2 different girls. Literally all K cares about is getting new speakers and tires for his car, getting laid, and making money. And the best/most shocking part? K is never without a girlfriend. I don't know how he manages to get them. I don't know if he goes after girls with daddy issues, or is he just has amazing luck, but K always has an at least average looking girl hanging on his arm. Maybe he just swoons them with his good looks? I don't know. All I know is that he gets the, and even if the relationships almost never last more than 2 months, he always gets a new one or, most of the time, has a new one running after him.

So to answer your question, yes, there are guys like the one you described or similar to him out there, from my experience. I don't know if he was lying or what, but they do exist.

[Cloud86]

Yep, I know guys who are like this. They are completely dull yet very attractive by society's standards, and they somehow manage to pull women, or at least get laid.

Example of a bland, dull yet attractive male Jess knows IRL: I know a male specimen, we'll call him K. K is very attractive and somewhat funny in an immature way. K also has no depth whatsoever, and his personality is very dull. K cannot carry a conversation well. K dropped out of/got expelled from highschool, failed at getting his GED, and had 2 pregnancy scares with 2 different girls. Literally all K cares about is getting new speakers and tires for his car, getting laid, and making money. And the best/most shocking part? K is never without a girlfriend. I don't know how he manages to get them. I don't know if he goes after girls with daddy issues, or is he just has amazing luck, but K always has an at least average looking girl hanging on his arm. Maybe he just swoons them with his good looks? I don't know. All I know is that he gets the, and even if the relationships almost never last more than 2 months, he always gets a new one or, most of the time, has a new one running after him.

So to answer your question, yes, there are guys like the one you described or similar to him out there, from my experience. I don't know if he was lying or what, but they do exist.
Ah okay, I was just wondering. :P

But if we pretend that this is kind of like a worst-case scenario, where the guy only has his looks going for him, and he is otherwise kind of serious, avoids people in general, looks grave, and rarely speaks to anyone nor opens up to anyone, would that still give him the same opportunities?
Would he be able to go to a party, stay there for an hour doing absolutely nothing but walking around, and still get several girls after him who desperately try to get a date with him simply because he is physically attractive?
Wouldn't they lose interest if he seemed boring and serious, or showed no huge interest in talking to them, or completely lacked charisma?

[lemondrop]

Looool better love story than twilight, i think he lied so damn badly, like:girls wanted have sex with him *rofl* sounds ridiculous. I think he one of those who likes to lieeee. In my own school i heard story's like this..nobody believes in thing like these or maybe those girls nymphoman's

[Natalie97]

Well, I was absolutely smitten by a guy like this a few months ago (sadly, he dumped me two weeks ago for some other girl, and now he barely notices me, but oh well), but when I saw him my reaction was just like "oh my god I can't believe my eyes, he is SOOO HOT!".
He was about 6'8 tall, very muscular and with broad shoulders, had a beautifully shaped face, beautiful eyes, hot lips, and a wonderful haircut.
He was pretty much the ultimate alpha-male type of guy.
Anyway, when I had noticed him the ONLY thing on my mind was to get my hands on him, and make him smurf the heck out of me.
So I respected that he didn't seem terribly interested at first, and that he seemed a little hesitant - I just ignored that and kept flirting all I could with him, hoping that he would be comforted, and melt and wanna have sex with me.
Heck, I actually noticed him checking out my breasts while I walked up to him (I had unbuttoned my shirt before walking up to him, just so he could enjoy my cleavage ^^), and not even that bothered me, I just found it hot and exciting. :P
He looked at them with such cute and innocent eyes, almost childlike, sort of like he was thinking "whoa... that babe's got a beautiful chest" - great for him, he was gonna get a closer look at that, a muuuch closer look. ^_~

I'm not sure how many girls would react like this, but this was how I felt - I saw his super-hot looks, and I wanted him in bed as soon as possible right away, and everything else was secondary.

But this probably happens to a lot of guys fairly often if they look reasonably fit and have some charisma - maybe not at school, but probably at parties, where a lot of girls just wanna find some sex with someone who looks good.

[Blood]

Ah okay, I was just wondering. :P

But if we pretend that this is kind of like a worst-case scenario, where the guy only has his looks going for him, and he is otherwise kind of serious, avoids people in general, looks grave, and rarely speaks to anyone nor opens up to anyone, would that still give him the same opportunities?
Would he be able to go to a party, stay there for an hour doing absolutely nothing but walking around, and still get several girls after him who desperately try to get a date with him simply because he is physically attractive?
Wouldn't they lose interest if he seemed boring and serious, or showed no huge interest in talking to them, or completely lacked charisma?

Well I obviously can't speak for all women, but I would definitely lose interest. I probably wouldn't even approach him if he seemed standoffish. Intelligence and charisma are two of the most attractive characteristics about a person, and if you don't have at least one, I'm not sure I would find you very attractive.

However, people seem to forget that just like there are guys out there who chase after women for mainly sexual reasons and one night stands, there are women who do the same. Women can be just as horny as guys, and yes, I'm pretty sure some of them will go after the one that looks the best, even though he lacks in the personality department. :P

Also there's always the case of "Awh, he's quiet and shy, he must be the hurt puppy type that I can heal". And while that may be the case sometimes, it definitely isn't always. Some people are just introverts and generally tend to have asshole like qualities, they're not putting up some hurt puppy front.

[Cloud86]

Well I obviously can't speak for all women, but I would definitely lose interest. I probably wouldn't even approach him if he seemed standoffish. Intelligence and charisma are two of the most attractive characteristics about a person, and if you don't have at least one, I'm not sure I would find you very attractive.

However, people seem to forget that just like there are guys out there who chase after women for mainly sexual reasons and one night stands, there are women who do the same. Women can be just as horny as guys, and yes, I'm pretty sure some of them will go after the one that looks the best, even though he lacks in the personality department. :P

Also there's always the case of "Awh, he's quiet and shy, he must be the hurt puppy type that I can heal". And while that may be the case sometimes, it definitely isn't always. Some people are just introverts and generally tend to have asshole like qualities, they're not putting up some hurt puppy front.
Yeah, however, I still find it weird how some super-hot people seem to not be treated this way at all.
I know both a guy and a girl at my school who are both technically "extremely good-looking" - the guy looks kinda like Brad Pitt and the girl looks like an angel - and they still aren't approached or barely even noticed, and as far as I know both of them are single, or at least never seem to talk to any partners.
Sure, they rarely go to any parties, and pretty much only seem to go to school and then back home again, and don't seem to have that many friends at all.
But still, how is that possible?
Shouldn't they also be constantly approached at least when they are at school, since they are so good-looking and obviously a lot of people will see them there?

[Natalie97]

Well, when I am at a party or whatever and spot an amazingly hot guy with a perfect face and body, I just try to get some sex from him.
In these cases I don't care what he is like - if I almost faint from his crazily hot looks, and he suggests that I should come with him to the bathrooms and bend over then I will do it.

I have no idea how common this is, but probably not too much.
I guess I'm just horny.

[Renata_cmp]

Shy hot boys are the "hurt puppies i can heal" and shy ugly boys are "creepy fucking weirdos"... Just like i'm sure you can be super hot and the biggest asshole and everyone is gonna want to sleep with you, but you can be the smartest, kindest and most sensible person ever, if you're fat or/and ugly, you can rott in hell you'll never find a girlfriend. That's what i get from friends and personal experiences.

[Cloud86]

Shy hot boys are the "hurt puppies i can heal" and shy ugly boys are "creepy fucking weirdos"... Just like i'm sure you can be super hot and the biggest asshole and everyone is gonna want to sleep with you, but you can be the smartest, kindest and most sensible person ever, if you're fat or/and ugly, you can rott in hell you'll never find a girlfriend. That's what i get from friends and personal experiences.
I have always heard that girls focus much more on personality, status and charisma when they determine how attractive someone is.
Is that wrong now all of a sudden?

I thought most girls found even guys with hot looks unattractive if they seemed insecure and stiff.

[Renata_cmp]

Well, look at all the "how can i date this super-ot guy i absolutely don't know?" threads...

[Cloud86]

Well, look at all the "how can i date this super-ot guy i absolutely don't know?" threads...
Do you consider it common among girls to date a guy only because he has a hot body, regardless of what personality he has?

And does this mean that a guy who looks super-hot will automatically get all the girls at school, like just waiting to be approached, then be taken home to the girls and encouraged to take off his and her clothes without having to take any initiative at all himself - and then be unfaithful to that girl just before he dumps her and that girl would still crush on him and desire him back?
That sounds a little odd, does it really work that way?

[Renata_cmp]

seems like it yeah, nobody wants smart ugly people, they wand dumb hot ones. and it's depressing me. Guys, to get girls you don't have to be kind or smart, all it need is abs, perfect face, perfect teeth and all this shallow bullshit. No wonder domestic violence exist if the first hot fucktard gets all the dates he want.

[Cloud86]

seems like it yeah, nobody wants smart ugly people, they wand dumb hot ones. and it's depressing me. Guys, to get girls you don't have to be kind or smart, all it need is abs, perfect face, perfect teeth and all this shallow bullshit. No wonder domestic violence exist if the first hot fucktard gets all the dates he want.
But why are only SOME super-hot guys treated this way?
Some guys can be extremely hot but still barely get noticed by anyone, what's up with that?

[Renata_cmp]

they must have some thing that is not considered 'attractive', like, maybe they're short, or don't have abs, or not the 'right' hair color... i don't know.

[Cloud86]

Well I obviously can't speak for all women, but I would definitely lose interest. I probably wouldn't even approach him if he seemed standoffish. Intelligence and charisma are two of the most attractive characteristics about a person, and if you don't have at least one, I'm not sure I would find you very attractive.

However, people seem to forget that just like there are guys out there who chase after women for mainly sexual reasons and one night stands, there are women who do the same. Women can be just as horny as guys, and yes, I'm pretty sure some of them will go after the one that looks the best, even though he lacks in the personality department. :P

Also there's always the case of "Awh, he's quiet and shy, he must be the hurt puppy type that I can heal". And while that may be the case sometimes, it definitely isn't always. Some people are just introverts and generally tend to have asshole like qualities, they're not putting up some hurt puppy front.
But why would all girls be so focused on him?
Pretty guys are everywhere, what makes this guy so special that all girls notice him the most?

Also, I have heard countless times that girls tend to be more attracted to things like charisma and status, what happened to that?
Is it only looks that matter now, all of a sudden?

I mean, this guy who always gets approached - he must have some other qualities that make him stand out.
I find it hard to believe that he gets constantly approached like this only because he looks good.
I know several super-hot and pretty girls and not even they are treated quite like that, at least not in everyday life on the streets and at school.

[Flower96]

I would guess it's probably like this:

This "super-hot" guy probably had a great charisma (since he smiled and everything), and this combined with a fit body would probably make a great first impression, and would make it much easier for girls to approach him, since he seemed more "inviting".
Then he probably turned out to be a good guy as well, and since those first girls fould him attractive it quickly spread at the school.

As for people flirting on the streets or whatever, it's probably the same there - he looked like a nice and warm person, and also had a nice body, so it gave a great overall first impression.

I highly doubt that he would have the same success if he looked introvert and serious all the time.

This is how I see it, at least.
The other guys here might agree, possibly.

I simply cannot see ho someone who just "looks hot" would make such a great first impression if he never said anything and appeared generally stiff.
Do girls really usually fall for such guys?
I doubt that.

[Natalie97]

I would guess it's probably like this:

This "super-hot" guy probably had a great charisma (since he smiled and everything), and this combined with a fit body would probably make a great first impression, and would make it much easier for girls to approach him, since he seemed more "inviting".
Then he probably turned out to be a good guy as well, and since those first girls fould him attractive it quickly spread at the school.

As for people flirting on the streets or whatever, it's probably the same there - he looked like a nice and warm person, and also had a nice body, so it gave a great overall first impression.

I highly doubt that he would have the same success if he looked introvert and serious all the time.

This is how I see it, at least.
The other guys here might agree, possibly.

I simply cannot see ho someone who just "looks hot" would make such a great first impression if he never said anything and appeared generally stiff.
Do girls really usually fall for such guys?
I doubt that.
Well, I guess so.

[Renata_cmp]

yeah they did, because being shallow is a life style, adopted by many.

[Emerald Dream]

The OP is banned. :locked: