My friend, this girl and I

[Rowan1011]

Ok.. Well.. Here's the story. When I was 3 my mother introduced me to her old friend from highschool's son. We quickly became friends and have been very close ever since.. However, earlier this year he started hanging out with this girl. I knew her for a while, she's been in my class for ages(he goes to english and I go to french school because around here you need french to get a job and my parents don't speak it). So I thought, great, he has a crush on this girl from my class, what do I care.

Half a year later(and half a year before now) he reported he was making out with this girl and he fingered her and they gave each other head. Then he said he was just playing games...I was freaked out for a number of reasons; 1-My best friend had oral sex and etc.
2-That girl has a boyfriend!
3-That girl's bf is my friend D:

Before he told me, I promised I wouldn't say anything.. So being a loyal friend, I said nothing to anybody for 6straight months. When rumors started coming up, I'd say they were false and sometimes they made me their lookout... Man, you can imagine how fun that was.. Sitting under a bridge near the beach while my best friend and some girl make out right beside me.

So this summer he hasn't hung out with me though. I don't know why, but, if I walk down to his house to get him he'll say he doesn't feel like going out. So, being a friend, I don't pressure him or anything, and just say 'Alright then..' . Then if I come back a half hour later he'll be at that girl's house..( I feel kind of double crossed being his friend for so long only to be put in second place.. But it's only natural I guess that he wants to make love to some chick instead of hanging out with friends) And if I go to his house the next day he'll tell me a story of how he got her to do stuff to him.. To be frank, it scares the life out of me that my dear friend could be speak so badly of her when she's not around..

Lastweek I went down to her house with some friends, my best friend wasn't home, but sure enough he was there too. So I got my friends to wait outside and told them that if she doesn't tell her boyfriend about them or just plain break up with him that I'm going to tell him myself. Naturally, they get kind of mad then tell me that they'll do something. Then I leave, because the last thing I want to do is hang around them together... Kind of makes me sick after I've seen what they do.

The next day my friend(the boyfriend of that girl)was like 'Man.. I just got dumped. I don't get it, she just didn't hang around me anymore then she dumps me.. What did I do wrong..' so I said 'Just because you aren't acknowledged, doesn't mean you're doing something wrong. Look at Martin Luther King jr, they killed him.' he didn't understand what I meant(he's kind of simple). I was glad for him in a way.

Anyways... She got another boyfriend yesterday.. NO JOKE and my best friend was up there. So I just said fuck it and blew the whole conspiracy wide open. I don't even care if he's my friend anymore, he was in the wrong.. But I did kind of mess it all up for him.. Now he has two guys that are after his head(the old bf and new one), and the girl hates him because how she's his 'little project' when he's around me..

Did I do the right thing..? Damn I hate making decisions..

[Whisper]

"need to know French to get a job"

Do you live in Quebec? Because if u live anywhere else the only reason you'd NEED to know French is if you want to be in a profession such as a police officer.

As for your predicament in ancient Rome if a man was caught committing acts of infidelity he had his balls crushed between two stones......I don't think you were to hard on him

I agree with what you did
He was in the wrong
As for the bounty on his head well nothings free and to be completely honest I don't feel sorry for him at all

[I like Music]

Hmmm.....what he/she said ^^^^^^^^^

[Elokyn]

Yeah you did the right thing...that really needed to come out....man I hate when people play games

[Rowan1011]

Hmmm.....what he/she said ^^^^^^^^^
Well... He's pretty pissed, kind of hurts too because that guy was like a brother to me. I could just walk into his house as if it was my own, I grew up with the guy then just because of this he hates me. I know it'll probably all blow over within a few months, but still, it sucks. I mean, every summer up until now(including when I was 3 I am told), he and I hung out almost every day.. I know some shit about him that even he can't remember. Like how he used to pretend he was making out with Jasmine from Aladin and he'd like jump around under his blankets groaning when we were like 7 XD....

And now I'm starting to have second thoughts. I mean, I know it was wrong of them to do that stuff while she had a boyfriend.. But maybe he really liked her...? I mean, all last summer when I'd be at his house and etc. she's all he'd talk about... After a while I was sick of hearing about it and just said "Man.. You're obssessed you know that?... It's like she's all you think about!" and then he started with the 'games' and 'my little project'... So I don't know, maybe I forced him to say it in that way so he didn't sound pussy whipped and then I screwed it up for him because he thought I was good enough of a friend not to tell. Damn.. So confusing.

What should I do...?

[Rowan1011]

Juggling Knives says:
Hey
Juggling Knives says:
I'm not pissed at you
Ťaking Łives says:
hey
Ťaking Łives says:
man im sorry
Juggling Knives says:
I thought you were pissed at me.
Juggling Knives says:
..Wtf is going on.
Ťaking Łives says:
that night i swear i didnt tell my sister to lie,i snuck out
Juggling Knives says:
Yeah, I don't really care about that.
Juggling Knives says:
I wasn't even mad. Only mad for a minute
Juggling Knives says:
Also I didn't tell anyone but kyle about what you and Morgan did
Ťaking Łives says:
and not snuck i walked quietly and i swear to god i was going to get you guys and walk around town with flahs lights lol
Ťaking Łives says:
ok
Ťaking Łives says:
you didnt tell anything else right?>
Juggling Knives says:
No
Juggling Knives says:
Just that
Ťaking Łives says:
ok
Juggling Knives says:
because Dylan was pissed
Juggling Knives says:
so I was like "We're doing you a favor man.."
Ťaking Łives says:
i was freaking out lmao
Juggling Knives says:
Dylan was pissed because we wrote that message
Juggling Knives says:
so I said "We're doing you a favor man.."
Juggling Knives says:
then Kyle was like "WTF?" 'cause I was at his house
Juggling Knives says:
so I told him and told him not to tell
Juggling Knives says:
until like half a year after they broke up
Juggling Knives says:
so that Dylan wouldn't get angry at you as much.
Juggling Knives says:
But, y'know, you can't trust kyle with that shit.
Ťaking Łives says:
i know
Ťaking Łives says:
thats why i tell you stuff lol

Man.. I thought he was pissed at me, and he thought I was pissed at him. Dylan's the boyfriend, and I'm "Juggling Knives" and my old friend is Taking Lives. Looks like it cleared up pretty well :D

P.S. Sorry for double posting, thought it was appropriate though.

[Elokyn]

yeah, its only double posting if you immediately write like two things right after each other that could be put together..in your case it's 2 days after so you're fine lol

and I'm glad things worked out for ya :)

[~Ðarç~]

"need to know French to get a job"

Do you live in Quebec? Because if u live anywhere else the only reason you'd NEED to know French is if you want to be in a profession such as a police officer.



what about montreal?

err

i think you did do the right thing, if a friend doesn't acknowledge you at all, and just leaves you there, what kind of friend is that?