Define

[Remora]

Is it really mandatory that i define myself as "straight", "gay" or "bi"? I'm only 14. I don't want to choose yet.

[Luminous]

Of course not. Labels are something humans made up, they don't change who you are, just how you identify. You can label yourself however you want or not at all, it's completely up to you.

[Unde4dmau5]

Like Hannah said, You don't have to label yourself as anything. If want to call yourself Straight, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, or however you would describe your sexuality, then that is entirely up to you. The only reason humans have labels like that is to make identifying people with similar sexual orientations easier (If that makes any sense).

[maddogmj77]

no, absolutely not, 100% not. you could go your whole life without choosing, nobody is gonna quiz you on this, you like whoever you like :)

[Yugen]

You are who you are and there's no need to label it.

[xXEverReadyXx]

I completely agree with the previous posts, you don't have to choose right now or really, ever. Your sexuality doesn't define you and therefore you don't need to define your sexuality. Just be who you want to be.

[Rayquaza]

You really don't need to define yourself at such a young age. You'll find out that as you grow older, you'll have more knowlege about yourself and will be able to make an informed judgement on your own experiences and personal taste. 14 is really young and if anyone asks, you could just always tell them you don't know, assuming that you're willing to share that information.

[ksdnfkfr]

Is it really mandatory that i define myself as "straight", "gay" or "bi"? I'm only 14. I don't want to choose yet.

I think most of us at our age should define ourselves as unsure because how we feel about stuff changes around a lot.

[ugaboy]

I guess i am too scared to to publicly define myself, but then again I live in the south of the USA. Personally, I am pretty sure I know what I am, but I still may want to try being with a girl in the future, just so I know what it is like. I really think we should all wait until after college age to define ourselves. A lot can change in a few years.

[jacko]

You don't have to choose yet. In fact i don't think you should because being a teenager, feelings like that can change a lot.

[Perfectly Flawed]

Don't feel like you need to decide. One day you may know, but if you never find out that's fine too.