I am too shy to approach a super-hot guy

[Flower96]

There is a guy at my school who is so freaking attractive that I can't believe my eyes - I don't know why he is so alluring, but I guess it's the combination of his cute innocent face and his big and muscular body that is so appealing for so many of the girls, (including me!).
Anyway, I see him get approached very often, and those girls are super-nervous and giddy, and he seems pretty much neutral to it (wouldn't surprise me at all if it's because he is very used to it).
And, well, what can I say? He is probably the most attractive guy I have ever seen, no exceptions, and most girls seem to think the same, and that just makes me more nervous.
How can I approach someone like him?
He feels "unattainable", he seems to always be with girls and always go with them to parties and stuff, and that's quite unpleasant to see.
Most girls know who he is, and every time he speaks to one of the girls he hangs out with she seems to try her best to be as charming as possible.
I have tried to get eye contact with him lots of times, and when we do get eye contact I try my best to keep it and smile at him, but I always become too shy.
I have done this lots of times as well, so I'm sure he knows I am checking him out, but I am afraid he might not be interested since he doesn't take the chance to approach me himself.
But I am so shy of him, and that's so frustrating since I feel like anyone will steal him at any moment.

[Luminous]

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[Broken Toy]

i would say you will have to try and get close to him by just finding an excuse to talk to him and go from there. just find any excuse you can and you never know he might be interested. you say he might not be because he hasnt went up to you but youre doing the same thing and youre interested in him. if hes not, its not like people can make fun because its not like he interested went up to any girls

[CosmicNoodle]

I'd say just do it, count to 3 and go for it, what do yoyu have to lose?

[Flower96]

Yes I really want to do it, I will try next time I see him.
It's very hard though, as soon as I spot him I just stand there and think "my god, he's so hot" and then I become super-nervous. :P

Is there anything I can say that makes it somewhat easy even if I am this nervous?
I have considered asking him for help to find some place at school or something, and hopefully he will guide me and "help me out", hehe - maybe a good idea?

I have also wondered if I could ask him to help me with some homework so I get an excuse to come over to his house, but maybe that's too much at once.

[Broken Toy]

if you know what hes good at, go for it. but like work it in to the conversation because you dont want to seem like youre using him for homework. be yourself because thats the best you can be. TeamFlower96!

[Ben_Frost]

I have also wondered if I could ask him to help me with some homework so I get an excuse to come over to his house, but maybe that's too much at once.

That's just too much at once. You have to make a safe approach first, just ask him for help to get somewhere in the school or I don't know, just say hi and chat about something vague enough to get his attention. Anything that you may feel comfortable with without being unpleasant.

[Flower96]

That's just too much at once. You have to make a safe approach first, just ask him for help to get somewhere in the school or I don't know, just say hi and chat about something vague enough to get his attention. Anything that you may feel comfortable with without being unpleasant.
Yes, I guess so.
If I just go home to him right away then I would probably not want to get to know him and just wanna do things with him right away. :P
But maybe he wouldn't mind. :P

[Renata_cmp]

Try to see if he's not an asshole before wanting to date him, i don't see the point of wanting to approach someone you don't know at all, just because they're "hot".