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cammiexo
August 24th, 2014, 12:56 PM
Ok, my and my boyfriend are both 16 and we are very happy in our relationship but he is inappropriate in public. We were at a restaurant the other day and he kept putting his hand up my shirt and rubbing me. He is constantly putting his hand up my shirt and trying to play with my bra/rubbing my thighs and putting his hands down my panties. This is ok at home but I don't think it's right in public, what should I do?
Body odah Man
August 24th, 2014, 01:03 PM
Ok, my and my boyfriend are both 16 and we are very happy in our relationship but he is inappropriate in public. We were at a restaurant the other day and he kept putting his hand up my shirt and rubbing me. He is constantly putting his hand up my shirt and trying to play with my bra/rubbing my thighs and putting his hands down my panties. This is ok at home but I don't think it's right in public, what should I do?

I think you should set limits and tell him. He shouldn't treat your body so disrespectfully in public at all. Just be clear with him and if he respects you he should stop
Lost in the Echo
August 24th, 2014, 01:04 PM
Simply tell him to knock it off. That's so rude and unnecessary.
He should know it's inappropriate, and he definitely should show you more respect than that.
Cognizant
August 24th, 2014, 01:51 PM
Simply tell him to knock it off. That's so rude and unnecessary.
He should know it's inappropriate, and he definitely should show you more respect than that.

Basically this. If he can't respect that in public than he doesn't deserve to touch you at all.
everlong
August 24th, 2014, 08:04 PM
Tell him to stop. I'd agree with you 100% that's inappropriate in public.
Luminous
August 24th, 2014, 08:35 PM
I agree. Nobody, boyfriend or not, should do more than go near you without your consent, and him being inappropriate is crossing that boundary by far. If you want him to stop, you need to communicate with him, like with everything else. I've never heard of a good relationship with bad communication. In fact, it can make or break one. Explain to him how what he's doing makes you feel and if he cares about you and not just your body he'll stop.