Is it strange that I am excited by guys who are much taller and stronger than me?

[Flower96]

I have some... "fetish" I guess you could call it, for guys who are clearly taller and more powerful than me (I am short myself, about 5'0, and "petite").
Basically, if I see a cute guy who also happens to be, say one foot taller than me (the taller the better, as long as it doesn't look abnormal) and has much, much bigger muscles than me all over his body, then not even my shyness can keep me from approaching him, I simply must walk up to him and say at least something, just so I can stand close to him for a while - and hopefully it goes even further than that.
I also really really enjoy when he demonstrates how big and strong he is, for example if we play fight with each other and he keeps wrestling me down with ease no matter how much I try to fight back, and then stands over me while I lie on my back, and then teases me for how small I am and how easy I am to handle and wrestle down, how tiny my arms look next to his arms and so on.

Of course, this is only attractive if the guy is cute and charming, and if I feel that I can trust him.
For some reason I just love to signal to a guy that I trust things like "look how small I am, I am so tiny and would not stand a chance against you", and know that they love being that way himself, like my own personal big and strong protective knight, heheh.
I also know that several of my friends feel the same way for these types of guys, but how common is it, really?

[Abbeys]

It sounds very instinctual to me like back to the caveman era and I understand it but do I want some guy to protect me?

No, not really.

[Renata_cmp]

I don't find strong big muscular guys attractive, i mean not more or less than short skinny/chubby guys. What attracts me is the kindness, the intelligence and how much i can trust him.

[Sminkelaks]

I think that's pretty normal and common. I like tall, strong guys myself.

[Abbeys]

I don't find strong big muscular guys attractive, i mean not more or less than short skinny/chubby guys. What attracts me is the kindness, the intelligence and how much i can trust him.

You put it so much better than I did.

[Lotte-g]

I think it's normal. .

[AnnaThaBabe]

we all like some kinds of guys, some just one n some more than one, but its all natural. just like some like funny guys, sport guys n stuff like that.

[CheekyBird]

I know what you mean. I always find marines really attractive, just their physic draws me in. Knowing they would be able to lift and carry me just makes me want to marry them on the spot....

[TinyDancer]

Sounds good to me!

[Renata_cmp]

I see, so personality really doesn't matter at all anymore... You can be the nicest, smartest person alive, if you're not attractive you'll never be loved by anyone... Fuck i wanna kill myself...

[Luminous]

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[Ben_Frost]

I see, so personality really doesn't matter at all anymore... You can be the nicest, smartest person alive, if you're not attractive you'll never be loved by anyone... Fuck i wanna kill myself...

I wanna kill myself too now :c I feel just this way too.

I like guys taller than me, and perhaps stronger but I don't fancy weirdly shaped muscle masses that are so ubiquitous nowadays. And for some years, I've settled on the one guy taller than me but that has a charming personality and is just the right kind of lean for me. Too bad I'm not attractive :C

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

no..

[Broken Toy]

i think the attraction of strong tall guys is an instinctual thing (as mentioned^) that is a natural attraction for some people as having a tall strong guy is safety and security. there isnt as much need for it now with all the weapons people have but in the past having a big strong man was important for survival.

if anyones interested i have a pretty mild 4 pack going on :D

[Renata_cmp]

so what?

[Broken Toy]

so what?

so it was mild humor at the fact im not tall or big but im proud that ive started to get a 4 pack because i did 2500 sit ups in 2 weeks and im quite proud of that. i like personality in a person too dont shit on my achievements

[Renata_cmp]

don't worry, you'll probably gonna get a lot more girls than your fat friend, no reasons to be pissed off.
btw, abs are obtained by low bodyfat, not by doing crunches or sit up. If you want abs, you better do daily cardio and moderate abs exercise instead of insanely intense abs workout. And don't forget good nutrition.

[Melodic]

Everybody in the world likes different types of people. You having a specific preference in guys isn't strange. Everybody likes who they like.