What am I? And should I say?

[ben5]

Right, at the moment I think I'm bi curious/bi but... I am not aroused (as much as men) by women but can imagine marring one and having kids etc. however I'm aroused by men but can't imagine marring a man. What does this make me. Do you think I should experiment before I decide what sexuality I am or what?

Also my main friends at school (mostly girls) want me to be gay and I feel guilty not telling them that I think I might be bi. But I'm very shy and not the best looking guy blah blah blah, and I have recently been with a bi friend of mine (girl 15) who has a little group of gay friends but has hidden it from her parents (my parents don't know either) and was asking her lots of questions and was agreeing and think like it's like me but I didn't tell her that because I'm shy and all. Main question do you think I should tell my friends?

Sorry for going on...

[erikzero99]

i think you should only tell them if you feel comfortable

[Living For Love]

Experimenting would help to clarify your situation, yes, but at first glance, I'd say your bisexual, thought that might later change a bit in the future as you grow up. I just didn't get the part where you said your friends want you to be gay, like, why, why do they say so? You are what you are, they can't really impose a sexuality on you or something.

[JamesSuperBoy]

I guess you can only tell others when you are sure yourself and only then those you can trust - why they seem to want you to be gay I really do not know but anyways its cool to have friends who are open about sexuality -

[Cognizant]

First off, just keep in mind that your sexual preference doesn't necessarily have to match your romantic preference - it's possible to consider yourself bisexual, but only feel romantic attraction towards females. That said, experimentation (I'm not saying you need to) can really help paint a picture of what you like sexually. However, as an outsiders opinion by someone who considers himself bisexual, I would say that you seem like you're bisexual.

On a different note, why would your friends want you to be gay? That just seems really odd to me..... but I personally would tell my friends once I became more comfortable with my sexuality.

[ben5]

I think they want me to be gay for a gay best friend and stuff like that (they have also planned out my life like job etc) , I know they can't make me be gay and it's my own choice but they don't know that I'm bi / curious and we are still all friends. So it really doesn't matter telling them until I'm certain (I think anyway) and I think I might experiment when I'm a bit older. Thanks for the advice.


(Probably doesn't make that much sense and some bits in the wrong order but hey I'm not great at English anyway sorry for going on again and thanks :) )

[KidStalion]

I think u r bi and should stay bi cause there r boys out there that could like u

There r more options out there in boys than girls and boys will care for who u r