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Mikel14
March 18th, 2008, 08:13 PM
Im not sure i this is the right place for this but someone will change it if it isn't so yah.
Okay so my friend knows like everything about me and I know eveyrthing about her like even masturbation methods and how far we've been and I always say we should do this or that together and I know i can't cuz i've had a gf but now were both single and i'm not sure if i should do this stuff or should I go out with her in a while and do stuff as a couple?
Dolphus Raymond
March 18th, 2008, 08:14 PM
Go out with her and see how it goes? Doesn't seem like a bad idea to me. If it were me, I wouldn't just mess around with her. You're good friends and that could put a strain on your relationship. But if a formal relationship leads to messing around, I don't see the harm.
Mikel14
March 18th, 2008, 08:17 PM
should i wait a while or just go out with her i just broke up with my gf today
Dolphus Raymond
March 18th, 2008, 08:21 PM
Are you really ready for a new relationship after less than 24 hours? I'm guessing no...
Maverick
March 18th, 2008, 08:43 PM
Boys Puberty --> Relationships.
Kaleidoscope Eyes
March 18th, 2008, 09:35 PM
Do you really want to date this girl, or are you just interested in the sexual aspect? Because if it's purely sexual to you, don't ask her to be your girlfriend. I'm sure you know that being a couple implies more than fooling around with each other, and it definitely implies spending time together where you do things that are not sexual in nature. Do you want that? If not, maybe you can think about suggesting some sort of friends with benefits thing to her, but don't pressure her if she's not up for it. if you do want a real relationship though:
Wait a while. I'd say at least a week or two, to be sure you're over your ex and you're ready to start over with someone new. During that time, watch her for signs that she might want to go out with you too, unless she's already told you that she does. Once you're positively over your ex and you think you have a shot at this other girl, ask her out.
Remember also though that, if you go out with her and it ends badly, your friendship could suffer. Decide how much you want this, and whether it's worth things being potentially awkward later.
Mikel14
March 19th, 2008, 12:50 PM
Remember also though that, if you go out with her and it ends badly, your friendship could suffer. Decide how much you want this, and whether it's worth things being potentially awkward later.
thats what im afraid of mostly
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