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Cricket97
August 22nd, 2014, 09:22 AM
So hı again. A few months ago i wrote about a guy i liked. There's a girl in my prep course and We are normal friends. İ visit her at recesses She visits me too. The deal is at normal school she and The guy i like are in The same class. She doesn't know this. İ admit when i found out that they were in The same class i wanted to get information about him also make a friend maybe. And i got information. It came up, mostly i directed The conversation. She told me that He was lazy and said stupid things in class. She might have understood that i like someone from her school. And i don't know if i should tell her. Maybe i could tell her when we become better friends. But what if she thinks that i used her. Of course im not going to ask her to be Matchmaker. But i just want to fully understand Thé Enigma of this guy. But i also don't want to hurt her Feelings

İm afraid that maybe i ama using her. Maybe i'll lose interest of talking to her when i tell her this. Advice,.Please.

CosmicNoodle
August 22nd, 2014, 11:44 AM
Just tell her, I HIGHLY doubt she would get med about somehting like this, and you may be let down about the "enigma" of this guy, talking as a male teenager I can asure you motsly all we think about is food, jacking off and computers, and ther occasional interesting topic don't epect anyhting very deep, but you never know,

Gumleaf
August 22nd, 2014, 05:33 PM
I think it is normal to talk to friends about someone you might like and to try and get information they might know about the person for you, especially if you do it in return if the reverse happened in the future. The only danger of you coming off as using her is if you don't take an interest in her life too and if your only conversations with her revolve around him and stuff. I'm sure if she is a reasonable person all will be ok.

Cricket97
August 23rd, 2014, 03:11 AM
Thanks, guys. Turns out, i worried for nothing. İ told her, and it was a good things i told it. Again it turns out that He has a girlfriend and not very good at saying smart things.