help! my cousin is coming up

[Jack russell dad]

Ok, at the beginning of the summer, i discovered i was gay, and my ocd didnt help. But i came out to my cuz(kaleb) and he was fine with it. He asked ALOT of questions. Anyways that was over txt. He lives in florida. Well 1 week after school was out i asked himif he only txt me when he was bored and had nothing better to do. He said maybe( a yes in his terms) so i said, meaning in a scarcastic matter, thats what i thought. He told me to fuck off, which made me feel horrible. I had done so much for him and he says THAT!!! Well i had a few crying filled sleepless nights thinking about him. Cause he had been my best pal and cuz since i was 6. The whole summer i tried to make back friends. But FUCK ME FREDDY that asshole wouldnt even act like he cared. I finally gave up when me, mom, dad, and sis and her friend went camping. I just got tired if trying and him putting no effort into it. He's coming up in two weeks. I REALLY dont want to see him. I wanna go somewhere the weekend but hell no i have to stay at the house:'(
What do i do? Sneak out? And im trying to ask out a guy at school too, and i know my cuz willwant to see who im talking too and such. Its horrible. He's 13, goin on 14. Im 15, goin on 16. Idk anymore:( any help???????

[Blood]

He's coming to visit your house, so no, you absolutely do not have to sneak out. Look if you did everything you can to try to apologize to him then just try to move on and be the bigger person. This is honestly such a petty thing for him to get mad about like seriously, what is he 5? Just be polite and civil when he comes to visit, but don't go out of your way for him anymore.

[Jack russell dad]

He's coming to visit your house, so no, you absolutely do not have to sneak out. Look if you did everything you can to try to apologize to him then just try to move on and be the bigger person. This is honestly such a petty thing for him to get mad about like seriously, what is he 5? Just be polite and civil when he comes to visit, but don't go out of your way for him anymore.

Okay. I wont. Thanks

[AdamS]

Life's too short.
Sounds like pride, 1 of you should swallow it and try sort this out.
N if not, at least you tried!

I've fallen out with friends n never thought we'd speak again...But in the end it gets fixed and we forget about it.

[Jack russell dad]

Life's too short.
Sounds like pride, 1 of you should swallow it and try sort this out.
N if not, at least you tried!

I've fallen out with friends n never thought we'd speak again...But in the end it gets fixed and we forget about it.

I tried for 2 MONTHS STRAIGHT to get us back buds. But he wouldnt do it. IM DONE WITH HIM.

[AdamS]

Sorry :/ I misunderstood. From your post it didn't look like you'd seen him in person since you fell out...

Well I guess you'll just have to be civil and quiet then.

[Jack russell dad]

Sorry :/ I misunderstood. From your post it didn't look like you'd seen him in person since you fell out...

Well I guess you'll just have to be civil and quiet then.

I havent. But ive called, txted, facebooked. He has ignored me. Or just told me to shut up. It seems like i lose everyone i love so oh well, another one bites the dust

[ksdnfkfr]

Maybe you pushed too hard too soon. But whatever, go with what Jess said and be the bigger person.

[Pulp501]

Maybe if you two are actually together he will get over it. Just be friendly and try to make up with him. If he doesn't want to make up, he will probably try to avoid you and maybe you can try to avoid him. If you are both avoiding each other you will barely have to see each other

[AdamS]

Its a lot harder to explain things or talk things out when not in person. Harder to emparthise too.

[Jack russell dad]

Maybe if you two are actually together he will get over it. Just be friendly and try to make up with him. If he doesn't want to make up, he will probably try to avoid you and maybe you can try to avoid him. If you are both avoiding each other you will barely have to see each other

Not trying to call you out, but i will be stuck in a tent with him for a weekend:'( a MOTHERFUCKING weekend. I CANT avoid him. I am being FORCED to be in a tent with him. That means no avoidence, no jacking off, no anything. No privacy. And if he does decide to be friends, he'll ask a bunch of questions on me being gay. I remember when i first came out to him he asked how i knew if i was gay, if i wanted to suck a guys dick, and asked about anal intercourse. So ill be dealing with questions along with any arguments he brings up. But im not gonna talk to him. Unless he talks to me

[Pulp501]

Not trying to call you out, but i will be stuck in a tent with him for a weekend:'( a MOTHERFUCKING weekend. I CANT avoid him. I am being FORCED to be in a tent with him. That means no avoidence, no jacking off, no anything. No privacy. And if he does decide to be friends, he'll ask a bunch of questions on me being gay. I remember when i first came out to him he asked how i knew if i was gay, if i wanted to suck a guys dick, and asked about anal intercourse. So ill be dealing with questions along with any arguments he brings up. But im not gonna talk to him. Unless he talks to me

I didn't realize you'd be in a tent with him. Don't talk to him unless you have to, but be nice when you do. It's only a couple days, you'll survive.

[Jack russell dad]

I didn't realize you'd be in a tent with him. Don't talk to him unless you have to, but be nice when you do. It's only a couple days, you'll survive.

Ill try

[ConsiderMeDead]

n well about asking a guy out if u want a long n good relationship wit him i found out tht its best tht u take at least a month to get to know him n become good friends n then u can ween into asking him out even tho basiclly wen u guys r hanging its pretty much lik dating soo thts wits i gots to say

[Jack russell dad]

n well about asking a guy out if u want a long n good relationship wit him i found out tht its best tht u take at least a month to get to know him n become good friends n then u can ween into asking him out even tho basiclly wen u guys r hanging its pretty much lik dating soo thts wits i gots to say

Thanks thats good advice:)

[ConsiderMeDead]

ur whalecum sir!!! :3 xD

[Jack russell dad]

Its all good the asshole isnt coming up here this weekend. So when he nxt comes up ill be able to drive away from the house. So YAY. Now im a tad bit happy

[Second Chance]

Your cousin sounds like a jerk assuming that you came out to him and he shut you down and basically stopped being your friend because you're gay. At this point I would not deal with him like you have been doing and do your own thing. I can understand why you're hurt especially if you've been close to him for a while.

Though your cousin is not coming to your house now chances are he will be in the future. Listen, your house is your house, and don't let anyone chase you out of your house no matter how much of a douche he/she is. Don't run away from problems like your cousin but rather confront them. I have respect for you for being brave enough to be honest about who you are, and what can your cousin say? Your cousin is the one who should be running away from you because he is in the wrong and not you because you did nothing wrong. If your cousin shows up, then I would be civil to him, but I just would not interact with him and just do your own thing. Don't run away or go away from your house because it is your place, and your cousin has nothing on you.

I think you said above that your cousin is something like 13 meaning he's in junior high. Chances are he's incredibly immature, and he probably does not know how to be serious. I guessing you're in high school, and you are going to have a lot more understanding and maturity than someone who's probably in 7th or 8th grade. Don't let some junior high school kid push you around, and you should stand your ground and not let some jerk make you feel awkward. After all, you're fine, and it is your cousin who has the issues.