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Ryuun
August 19th, 2014, 06:22 AM
So I went out with this girl 2 years ago and ive always still had feelings for her but this year my feelings for her have grown. In between then and now we have both gone out with other people and i know she still has some feelings for me because she was jealous when i went to the movies with a girl this year.

I've tried asking her to do something with me and she said yes but after a couple of hours she said that she thinks it might be a bad idea we didnt really talk much after that an she didnt say why it was a bad idea.

Tonight i saw a picture of her on facebook with another guy and i got really jealous which so isnt me anyway it was just her cousins.

what do you think? I have been having trouble moving on i just cant no matter how hard i try, but i dont think ill ever have a nother chance with her.

Gumleaf
August 20th, 2014, 02:25 AM
My guess would be that after saying yes to you to start with, she possibly thought that bringing up old feelings and stuff might not be a good idea. Perhaps she has no intention of wanting to be in a relationship with you again and didn't want to lead you on? In any case, as hard as it is, I think its time to try and move on. My only tip as far as trying to get your mind off her and stuff is to spend time doing things with other friends or things around the house that you enjoy. The more you mope and putting yourself in a position to be jealous (eg looking at her facebook profile), the worse its going to be.

Abyssal Echo
August 20th, 2014, 02:32 AM
I dated a guy for abuot 6 months we broke up then got back together a couple month later we broke up for pretty much the same reason. I wouldn't recommend getting back together.

Ryuun
August 22nd, 2014, 12:49 AM
yeah i guess i should try and move on for good thanks