What to do?

[TravisM]

Ok. I feel really wierd asking this, as I`ve never been interested in Girls until the last few weeks. I have this Friend, who for the Sack of This Post, I will call her S. I have recently started thinking I may Like her as More than a Friend and I want to ask her out. Now Here comes the Problem:

I`m Fat.(yes, I admit it) and I think that If I ask here out, she will say no and I will be totally embarrassed(I`m Like That)

So Here`s what I was thinking. Maybe I could do a Secret Admirer type thing, Leaving her notes and little gifts etc. For A while, and Then Ask her out.Or Should I just ask her and Suffer the embarrassment of her saying no.

I really do not know what to do and I`m really confused

[Silverfist64]

personally, i never thought that the "secret admirerer" thing ever worked. I would just ask her out and if she says no then she says no. If she likes you for who you are then shell go out with you. Giving gifts and notes can make a girl feel good and think they like the person, but when they find out who it is they may not like it anymore. plus in my opinion, it seems a bit stalkerish (my opinion)

[jay92]

umm all i can say is the girl will say omg a guy left me a really sweet note to her friends... her friends would say "omg wat a stalker" and you loose your chance.

Just ask her out and dont make an ass out of yourself. Lead up to it, if ya talk to her allot ask her what shes doing on the weekend bla bla bla, if she says allot of things do the same next week untill she says... umm not much and go for it!

[JoshDude]

Just ask. At my school nobody would say stuff about you if you were turned down, so nothing to be embarrassed about.