How To Ask My Mum?

[Leemac1999]

I have to go to a doctor for a problem with my penis and how should I bring it up with her.Should I say like I have an issue I want to talk to a doctor about ,I need some advice.

[Curious.kid]

What's wrong?

[Leemac1999]

What's wrong?

Tight foreskin

[Wyatt 13]

Why don't u ask your Dad?

[Semi_IronMan]

I think its betr to ask yor dad bt if he's unavailable try some1 lyk yor uncle, if they'r also nt available tel ur mum u need 2 see a doctor abt a prblm u have

[VikingEddie]

Just be honest. You mom only wants the best for you. She ought to be impressed you had the courage to take care of business and talk to her.

[jacko]

I'd bring it up by saying "I have this problem...", she is your mum after all. Unless, you wouldn't feel comfortable with it, then try bringing it up with your dad or uncle

[Second Chance]

I have to go to a doctor for a problem with my penis and how should I bring it up with her.Should I say like I have an issue I want to talk to a doctor about ,I need some advice.

I think what you said is the right way to handle the situation, and just say you need to talk to the doctor about something.

If it means anything, tight foreskins are actually pretty common, and there is no shame in telling your mother that you are having a problem with that. It is far better to be open with your parent(s) about your problem so that they will not be wondering what you're doing in the doctor's office. It is not like there's something wrong with you having a tight foreskin, and you just need to get some of that medicated ointment to loosen things up. A lot of guys have tight foreskins especially when they start out in puberty, and you are hardly alone in that department. Just be direct with your mother about your problem, and you'll be taken care of.

[JustJordan]

I would ask my dad or a fatherly figure (Uncle etc.) but if thats not possible there is no shame in asking your mom to take you to see the doc, that is a pretty common issue.

[deregisterme]

I have to go to a doctor for a problem with my penis and how should I bring it up with her.Should I say like I have an issue I want to talk to a doctor about ,I need some advice.

Just say that you have a problem down there. If she does want more info, just tell her that the foreskin is a bit tight and you want the doctor to check. It may be necessary for parents to make an appointment and take you to the surgery, but it's not necessary for her to be in the room with you when the doctor checks you over. If you say to the doctor at the time, she would have to say in the waiting room.

PS I hope the doc can help you out, and give you several options

[Zanman11]

Just let her know you're worried about your penis and wish to see a doctor. Tight foreskin can usually be fixed very easily with cream

[nklarke]

Tell your mom that you have an issue and a question about your genitals and that you want a doctor, I doubt she's going to ask further details. She's gonna get the appointment.

[AlisterPSG]

I had a tight foreskin never told my mum about it just pulled the doeskin so I came of my head a little not hurting myseft too much and not damaging the head after a year I could then pull it down all the way. You can use this method if you want but it's probably better to see the doc, just say I think I might have a problem with my stuff and can I get it checked out. She would agree obviously because if you think about it she wants to make sure you get a wife and kids, all mums do.

[fast8]

I just tell your mom u have a problem u need to see the dr I'm sure she knows u can have problems down there and she is your mom you should not. be scare to talk to your mom about them problems if your dad is not around to talk to

[ksdnfkfr]

sounds embarrassing, but keep in mind your mom has seen and touched your penis more than anyone bathing and diapering you. She may even already know about you having a tight foreskin.

[AdamS]

Have you tried having a warm bath n easing it back gradually. After some time it should loosen.

If you have to go to the doc. You could just tell your mom it's a guy thing and you need an appointment.

[Fireangel]

Tight foreskin

Don´t worry, wait for 2 or 3 years, stretch your foreskin everyday, do it slow and softy but don´t force your foreskin, do it gradually. Do you have any pain or problem with masturbation? How old are you?

Have you tried having a warm bath n easing it back gradually. After some time it should loosen.

If you have to go to the doc. You could just tell your mom it's a guy thing and you need an appointment.

Totally agree.

[Ethan]

You could just tell her what’s wrong. I’ve done it, so I know how you feel. I had to tell my parents that one of my testicles was really sore and my mom took me to the hospital right away. I’m sure that your mom will understand and want to help. Before you see the doctor, please read what I wrote in your other thread.

[CrazyPerson101]

Well as many people have said, go to a fatherly figure ( Dad, Uncle, Grandpa, Great uncle, grandpa etc. and tell them about it and see what they can do, if noone is around, then you need to tell your mom you have a problem and its down there, id like to see a doctor and make sure everythings okay and if she needs more info, im sure by this point you can open up to her. Im super close with my mom so I mean, If I have a problem, I tell her nomatter what it is. Good luck

[TheLivingLie]

I have to go to a doctor for a problem with my penis and how should I bring it up with her.Should I say like I have an issue I want to talk to a doctor about ,I need some advice.

OMG I have/had this exact problem and I had it for like a year, by then it was a very bad problem which needed surgery, just realise what could happen if you dont...

[CuteGuy889]

Those appointments can be scary too.....I was taken to a urologist at 16 yrs cos lack of hiar development (little pubes and no beard). He got me to take off my jeans and weighed me at the entrance. Took a long history while I was wearing my briefs ( I had to tell abt size issues in front of a 30s nurse), Then he got me to exam bed, got my briefs (almost broke down whn he pulled my undies down) to my knee level, examined my pubes, genitals, and rectum. Measured my waist and hip too (cos i had started putting on after being stick skinny all my life)...Then he let me get dressed with the hlp of the nurse while he chatted with my mom and prescibed...I was so ashamed I cried on my way home in da car.

[Curious.]

Those appointments can be scary too.....I was taken to a urologist at 16 yrs cos lack of hiar development (little pubes and no beard). He got me to take off my jeans and weighed me at the entrance. Took a long history while I was wearing my briefs ( I had to tell abt size issues in front of a 30s nurse), Then he got me to exam bed, got my briefs (almost broke down whn he pulled my undies down) to my knee level, examined my pubes, genitals, and rectum. Measured my waist and hip too (cos i had started putting on after being stick skinny all my life)...Then he let me get dressed with the hlp of the nurse while he chatted with my mom and prescibed...I was so ashamed I cried on my way home in da car.

I hope that your better now and it did not affect you much, it seems an invasion of privacy although needed and professional.

[Curious.]

I have to go to a doctor for a problem with my penis and how should I bring it up with her.Should I say like I have an issue I want to talk to a doctor about ,I need some advice.

I hope you are better and you managed to talk to the doc.

[Nick2012]

just ask her to take you to the doctor. She is you mother and she dosent want anything bad to happend to her son. Fell free !

[football matt]

Tell he it's something else then talk to the doctor when ur alone

[built chris]

Just tell her it's something else you can talk to the Dr about what ever you want once your alone.

[SethfromMI]

it may be easier, as been said, to go to your dad or another male family member. if not, just ask your mom if you can see a doctor about a "private" issue. I am guessing she will not ask for anymore details

[canadienudist]

Its your mom, no need to feel embarrassed, but if you are, just explain to her, you need to see the doctor, just tell her its a guy thing. I'm sure she will understand, but then if the doctor has to something because of your tight foreskin, she is going to find out anyways.

[richie909]

I had the same problem, I had to ask and show her, she's ur mum so she's seen it all before.

[Drewboy]

Just tell her you have a problem down there and want to see a doctor. It's a part of your body and your body is never something you should be ashamed of :)

[Sscion]

Just don't let anyone talk you into getting circumcised, I did it 2 years ago at 13, worst mistake of my life, and ill probably regret it for the rest of my life

[Uranus]

I think its betr to ask yor dad bt if he's unavailable try some1 lyk yor uncle, if they'r also nt available tel ur mum u need 2 see a doctor abt a prblm u have

Yes go with dad. He knows more than your mom does about it. Or your uncle.

[Tendencies]

You could say that you don't feel well or you could just be totally open with her and just straight up say, "I'm having some issues down there and need to see a doctor". I'm sure she'd rather go through the awkwardness of that conversation than have you go through something that could have been easily fixed.

[hockeyfan]

U could do that, but shed be worried.

[LokaChris]

Just say mom I know this is awkward for the both of us but I got to go to the doctor about my genetelia

[Zachary G]

I have to go to a doctor for a problem with my penis and how should I bring it up with her.Should I say like I have an issue I want to talk to a doctor about ,I need some advice.

the best way to do it is to do it like you said, just tell her you have a male issue that you would like to speak with a doctor about. this way she knows that its something personal, but important.