Seriously delayed Puberty

[Capitalist14]

Hi there! basically i'm really worried. I am 14 turning fifteen in october. I am only 5 foot tall. I have a 3.98 inch erect penis (I am a retard, i thought 10cm was three inch lol). I have small testicles with a red scrotum with no signs of darkening. I have no facial or underarm hair whatsoever. I have a worryingly thin penis. i think i have a webbed penis too. I don't know if it's a case of something stopping GH working properly as I have always looked one to three years younger than my classmates. I started having pubic hair growth when i was 13.25 I only started coming three months ago and it is clear with a tendency to turn white if rubbed off hands. gross i know :D i washed them after this lol.
I am a piece of S***. I have aspergers syndrome and mild dyspraxia. i'm not exactly good looking at all. Why is god so twisted? he gives me all this shit. couldn't he give me a 7 inch dick and put me ahead in puberty as a kind of apology? cos otherwise nobodies gonna be interested in me otherwise. I cut myself a lot and this contributes to it. The way i turned out changed me. I used to believe in god (Jewish) but now i find it hard to believe that god can be so cruel.
I am wondering if this has anything to do with my incredibly fucked up genes. My dad is 5 11' while my mom is 5 foot 0'. I think it is androgen/GH deficiency myself as i had pubes at 13. The only other thing i can think of is that my mom has an overactive thyroid. but wouldn't this mean i'd go AHEAD in puberty if this was the case?
I have also noticed that if i feel my pathetic excuse of a dick when it is erect, it bends slightly to one side. And one of the " tubes" inside is softer and more flexible than the other. and if i feel the head of my dick parts are soft and parts have those "tubes" in it. one of the "tubes" is further up inside the tube.
Plus i'm sick of people treating me like a child even though i act as an adult. if this problem was sorted i think people would take me more seriously. nobody likes a squeaky kid, right? my voice ain't broke

[justarandomteen]

Hey, you're probably just a late bloomer in terms of puberty. Everyone develops at a different rate. If you are really worried, talk to your parents or a doctor. Also, talk to a guidance counselor or psychologist about cutting (or check out the other forums on this site). As for your religious ...problems? Can't help you there. I, personally, don't believe in god, but anyway, you're just a late bloomer, which is fine. Hope I helped!

[nklarke]

You've a lot of time to grow so don't worry about that.

If your parents are small, probably you'll be small also.

Cutting yourself IS NOT a solution and won't make you bigger!

[Decalo]

Personally, with out starting conflict, I think people who cut themselves and refer to themselves as adult like are wrong. With that being said, I understand the late bloomer thing because I was late on everything haha. It will happen, the more you worry about it the more you will care if someone says something about your voice ect. People are cruel and will always make fun of the guy who they know will get hurt by it to make themselves feel good. My advice to you, and the advice that helped me through those times were, Ignore, Ignore, Ignore. And personally, in my opinion the late bloomers are the ones who look young when they are 30+ years old. Good Luck!

[Swimmer98]

I agree with Liam, everyone grows at different times and rates. Girls don't care how big you are, and if they do they aren't the kind of girls you want to be with.

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[rvale22]

Hi there! basically i'm really worried. I am 14 turning fifteen in october. I am only 5 foot tall. I have a 3.2 inch erect penis. I have small testicles with a red scrotum with no signs of darkening. I have no facial or underarm hair whatsoever. I have a worryingly thin penis. i think i have a webbed penis too. I don't know if it's a case of something stopping GH working properly as I have always looked one to three years younger than my classmates. I started having pubic hair growth when i was 13.25 I only started coming three months ago and it is clear with a tendency to turn white if rubbed off hands. gross i know :D i washed them after this lol.
I am a piece of S***. I have aspergers syndrome and mild dyspraxia. i'm not exactly good looking at all. Why is god so twisted? he gives me all this shit. couldn't he give me a 7 inch dick and put me ahead in puberty as a kind of apology? cos otherwise nobodies gonna be interested in me otherwise. I cut myself a lot and this contributes to it. The way i turned out changed me. I used to believe in god (Jewish) but now i find it hard to believe that god can be so cruel.
I am wondering if this has anything to do with my incredibly fucked up genes. My dad is 5 11' while my mom is 5 foot 0'. I think it is androgen/GH deficiency myself as i had pubes at 13. The only other thing i can think of is that my mom has an overactive thyroid. but wouldn't this mean i'd go AHEAD in puberty if this was the case?
I have also noticed that if i feel my pathetic excuse of a dick when it is erect, it bends slightly to one side. And one of the " tubes" inside is softer and more flexible than the other. and if i feel the head of my dick parts are soft and parts have those "tubes" in it. one of the "tubes" is further up inside the tube.
Plus i'm sick of people treating me like a child even though i act as an adult. if this problem was sorted i think people would take me more seriously. nobody likes a squeaky kid, right? my voice ain't broke
Well, nobody knows when puberty starts for them exactly! Puberty starts from the age of 11-17! Maybe it's still not your time! And for your religious problems, I can't obligate you to still believe in God, but god gives his most heaviest and toughest battles to his toughest warriors! :)

[Erik13]

whoa! hold on there!

you are 14? I am ALMOST 14 with a pretty big dick but no hair. i just started ejaculating a month ago and that was with a friend. i have since been able to cum on my own with my bald dick.

so you have a 3" cock. its pretty normal, i guess. i've had a 6" cock since i was 10 but with no hair and no ejaculation in all that time. i could orgasm, but that was it.

normal? no, apparently not, judging by a lot of guys here. but i AM catching up i guess. i still have no pubes, but i can now cum, and from what my friends tell me, i am kind of a freak when it comes to cum.

from what i am gathering here, we are ALL kinda freakish in our own sort of way. there IS no timetable, no blueprint, no concreet steps that happen in pubety.

okay, so you have aspergers syndrome. so do two of my best friends, and i am not ashamed to say that they are probably miles ahead of me in the smarts department.

i don't know about a "cruel god", but dude, you are still well within the margins here. if you were 21 and saying that you seem to be late, THEN you might have a case for concern. but you are only 15. not QUITE the norm, but then the "norm" isn't any kind of RULE. from what i've heard of "late bloomers" is that by the time puberty hits them, it happens almost overnight, and they end up getting FAR more than the rest of us who fit into the "norm".

stop thinking that you are a "piece of shit". honestly? that is the ONE reason why people tend to dislike someone else. if you can't think good about yourself, then how do you expect others to think good of you?

so you have aspergers syndrome, and you are a late bloomer, and YOU think you are "ugly" or substandard. we ALL have our personal little demons and insecurities -- we R human.

i can't say that i have ever cut on myself, but i have a couple of friends who do. i TALK to them a lot, and they talk to people who can help them. YOU should find people to talk to. you aren't alone here, and you aren't alone there, wherever you are. if you can't find people your own age to talk to, then at least talk to people who CAN help you feel without causing injury to yourself.

the bottom line here dude is to define "normal". "normal" isn't quite as narrow as a lot of people think it is.

YOU? you are well within the normal range. just give it time.