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Uranus
August 17th, 2014, 05:00 PM
So, hello all fellow VT users! So if you read another post of mine you'll know I am in a very good distant relationship with a girl. If not, well then, no ya know. So I've been with her for a little more than 6 months. I've known her for almost a year. Anyways yes, we're in a distant relationship and we are doing excellent. We're very open with each other in the relationship and don't have secrets at all, beside what she may or may not do on my birthday, damn it I wanna know! Lol but besides that we are going to go to college and eventually live with each other. So we also know that we both love each other very much and we wanna be together. The thing is, she's got a fetish and I guess she's kinky. She wants to have, well, a threesome. Thankfully not with another man because she would never be with another man as long as she's with me. She is bisexual. Now she's not going to be like that forever. It's another thing she wants to do before....kids. Once we do have them we will settle down and be like regular moms and dads'. The question is : Is it bad she wants a threesome with another girl or is it that bad? I love her and would not cheat on her, and her the same. But is it a bad idea? Or no? I'm having trouble deciding. As a guy, I'd say "fuck yea lets do this shit!" But i don't want it to ruin our relationship. Yes I know it's different from another guy, but still. The only guy she'll be with is me. I just need help deciding. What's your view on this?

Living For Love
August 18th, 2014, 06:24 PM
Teen Sexuality and Gender :arrow2: Relationships and Dating.

Thatcooldude
August 18th, 2014, 09:40 PM
I say give it a try, I mean just because she wants to spice things up a bit with an extra person doesn't mean she's going to leave you for them. She's in a relationship with YOU for a reason, not that girl. Threesome's just a way for couples to add more fire to the bedroom, but at the end of the day, they still commit to each other, the extra player in the room is just a tool for the couple's desires.