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Myself
March 17th, 2008, 08:42 PM
I really like this girl at my school, but i dont know how to ask her out
When ever i get the chance to talk to he, i say something stupid
I'm also kind of a nerd/geek/social outcast at my school.
HELP

IfPiratesCouldFly
March 17th, 2008, 08:55 PM
I'm not an expert with girls, which being the fact I'm with my gf right now is a matter defying the laws of life...but really, be yourself. This bit of info will help you, 1. lose your label as the social outcast, and two help you with this girl. Don't close yourself up, I once did that, it's not smart.

jay92
March 18th, 2008, 03:02 AM
if your a nerd/geek or whatever continue to be one, you are who you are and dont let anything distract your study.

Its common that all the "popular" people with all the girlfriends getting drunk on the weekends end up working as a check out chick for the rest of their lives. But if you continue with your study and always aspire to do well you will be the one with a well paying respectable job, you will get girlfriends etc in Uni or College or whatever.

There is plenty of time for socializing after school finishes, my mistake was going with the crowd and i am extremely jealous of the smart people who may not be as social, but they are doing much better in school and will end up millionaires. Be youself and you will meet people you like, and by the time your 16/17 you will be getting girlfriends etc.

Dont get pulled into temptations of being like everyone else and having a mob of friends
Labels are stupid, dont try and be someone you are not. If your a geek be proud of it. If i was one i would be!

hope this helps mate

Myself
March 18th, 2008, 09:37 PM
if your a nerd/geek or whatever continue to be one, you are who you are and dont let anything distract your study.

Its common that all the "popular" people with all the girlfriends getting drunk on the weekends end up working as a check out chick for the rest of their lives. But if you continue with your study and always aspire to do well you will be the one with a well paying respectable job, you will get girlfriends etc in Uni or College or whatever.

There is plenty of time for socializing after school finishes, my mistake was going with the crowd and i am extremely jealous of the smart people who may not be as social, but they are doing much better in school and will end up millionaires. Be youself and you will meet people you like, and by the time your 16/17 you will be getting girlfriends etc.

Dont get pulled into temptations of being like everyone else and having a mob of friends
Labels are stupid, dont try and be someone you are not. If your a geek be proud of it. If i was one i would be!

hope this helps mate

Thanks,

BUT (new topic), this other guy in my sort of "social status" asked this girl out, and now he is getting bullied by people who i thought were my friends, this guy was my friend, and i want to mend our friendship, any advice for me to give him?:confused::confused::confused:

IfPiratesCouldFly
March 18th, 2008, 10:26 PM
Hmm...For this one, best bet would be to tell those so called friends to eff off, secondly, he should know he shouldn't feel the need to hesitate on asking someone out just because people dont accept it, its not their business, so tell him to be proud he went up and asked her out, instead of ashamed.

The Batman
March 18th, 2008, 10:33 PM
don't just try and ask her out just start off as friends and work your way up from there

Myself
March 19th, 2008, 08:07 AM
any more advice?

Maverick
March 19th, 2008, 03:27 PM
User is banned so locking.