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musicboy97
August 16th, 2014, 04:10 PM
I know this probably sounds silly but i'm not truly scared of much, yes i may not like some things i may fear somethings but they do not physically scare me i can overcome these fears. but as the time gets closer that i am starting sixthform college (its before uni or college in america) i am become scared of loosing all my friends leaving the people i love most in this world the people i have made bonds with over the past 5 years the people who let me be who i want to be the people that help me realise its ok to be gay its ok to be diffrent. i dont wan tot loose these people but i know that in 2 weeks time they may all forget about me because i wont be there. i am leaver virtually all my friends when i go to this new college only one of my friends is coming with me to the same place.

i just want some advise how do i stop myself from making this a bigger deal than this is but i am so scared that i may no longer have these people around em

Cognizant
August 17th, 2014, 12:35 AM
I'm the same way. I really don't want to leave all my friends after I graduate high school next year. Even if I go to the same community college as a majority of them, there's some good friends of mine that I definitely know are going to be moving onto bigger and better things. It scares me, because I'm super shy and suck at making new friends. In fact, if they weren't super social and encouraged me to break out of my shell with them, I probably wouldn't have any real life friends.

The wonderful thing about living in today's day and age, though, is we have the ability to talk to our friends at our fingertips with cell phones and social media. You always have the option of adding them on Facebook, sending them a text message, or video calling them on Skype. And surely there'll be times you can visit them, right? Idk about sixth form college but here in the 'States you get a "break" between terms. So when I do move down South to go to college I can always drive up and visit my old family and friends when I have time off from school and work. It's all going to be fine bud!