stuck and don't know what to do

[jessie3]

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for about 9 months but lately we been having a lot of issues and it's really effecting our relationship. I'm not going to explain all of the issues because if I do I might as well write a book, so I'm going to get to the main one. The main problem is that I honestly love and adore him so much, I do not wish to be with anybody else except him, he means everything to me, but lately I found myself not really attracted to him. It started after we had a argument and that eventually led to a break up, but then I went back with him because I can't see myself without him. I talked to a friend on here about it and he suggested on becoming friends but I don't want to be friends, i love him.

I am not breaking up with him.

I'm just really stuck here, any advice?

[Blood]

Why aren't you attracted to him anymore? You have to know why if you want to try to fix it.

[jessie3]

Why aren't you attracted to him anymore? You have to know why if you want to try to fix it.

I don't know why.
Lately I haven't felt like any " spark " inside of me, before that argument I was irritated because I had asked him if we could try to fix our relationship because I knew it was going some place I didn't want it to end but right after that argument thats when I felt my attraction go away.

[Blood]

I don't know why.
Lately I haven't felt like any " spark " inside of me, before that argument I was irritated because I had asked him if we could try to fix our relationship because I knew it was going some place I didn't want it to end but right after that argument thats when I felt my attraction go away.

Ok well...

Are you just not attracted to him physically and sexually anymore, or is it more of a loss of emotional attraction? Maybe you guys should try doing something new together. Something you haven't done before, just to spark things up.

[jessie3]

Ok well...

Are you just not attracted to him physically and sexually anymore, or is it more of a loss of emotional attraction? Maybe you guys should try doing something new together. Something you haven't done before, just to spark things up.

It's physically and sexually.

Update: Well after talking to him, we just broke up

[Blood]

Well after talking to him, we just broke up

I'm sorry to hear that. But maybe it's for the best. Just give each other time and see what happens. I'm here if you want to talk.

[jessie3]

I'm sorry to hear that. But maybe it's for the best. Just give each other time and see what happens. I'm here if you want to talk.

Thanks