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[Sandstorm]

It's very weird. Only a week ago, I was able to masturbate to women, and i enjoyed it. I always think about girls and check them out in school. I've had occasional thoughts of guys, here and there, but I never really cared, i just brush it off. Now, all of a sudden, it seems like a switch was flipped and I don't really wanna see girls bodies, but guys, and it seems like when i think of a girl body, its like who cares, but with a guys body im more into it, yet i loved women's bodies less than a week ago. Am i gay, or is it just a phase? i heed help.

EDIT: Also, when i think of giving oral to guys, it seems gross., yet i have these urges to to do something with my anus, but idk if im just curious, because i was able to cum to girls such a short time ago

[ScotsGirl]

Your going through puberty, your hormones are changing like crazy.
Don't worry about how your feeling, its completely normal and it doesnt mean you are gay.

Just relax and go with it. There is no point in worrying over it.
:)
xxx

[Sandstorm]

but it just seems like this has been long coming, all those thoughts i suppressed could mean ive been gay the whole time and just supressing it. also, ive never seen a guy or girl in real life, but when im in the llocker rooms nad other people are in the shower, when i think about going in there i feel like an erection would come if i did, does taht make me gay?

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

No, it doesnt. Almost all guys have sexual thoughts about other guys, it doesnt mean you are gay. Maybe you could have been surpressing it, only you can truly know that, but if you have been thinking about girls all this time, I doubt it. You probably arent gay, Its nothing to worry about, you'll know eventually! Until then, just enjoy these thoughts and feelings, try to make the best of them!

[Sandstorm]

also, these past couple weeks, ive had to work harder to get a full erection when i jacked off to a girl, and now i feel almost noting when i think of a girl naked, which i used to feel. also, i still see the same girls as hot, and i dont find guys attractive, but i have no drive to get with the girls all of a sudden. also, i think it has to do with the fact ive never had a gf. the exited feeling i get from thinking about stuff now, i used to get it when i thought about fgirls, and maybe im just tired of it and want the real thing? am i gay?

[Requin]

It's hormones, that's all, as i've said before, you won't really know until your done with puberty so be patient. Also it sounds to me like you keep pursuading yourself that your gay, stop please get a clear head. For the record, i don't think you are, you sound a bit like me so be patient.
P.S Here's a question for you, do you fell like you would want to have a relationship with a guy and live with him for the rest of your life, or do you want to marry a girl?

[Sandstorm]

i see ur point

[IfPiratesCouldFly]

Yeah plus, like...after a while it gets old, like, it can't just be like...boobs! Bam! erection, it doesn't always work that way. And yeah, its very normal to have sexual thoughts about dudes, its entirely natural. So you got nothing to worry about.

[Sandstorm]

are u guys sure? i mean, i could see that if i still wanted to have sex w/ girls and guys, but the sex w/ girls drive jsut shut down and the other one is up and that seems a little drastic for just horomones

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Yes, I think we are all pretty much in agreement here. Its probably hormones, just lay back and let things take their course, you cant really be sure until you get out of puberty, or into the later stages. Thats really not drastic at all (the drives), I have the same thing and Im not gay. Its seriously nothing to worry about :)

[japanman]

Yes, I think we are all pretty much in agreement here. Its probably hormones, just lay back and let things take their course, you cant really be sure until you get out of puberty, or into the later stages. Thats really not drastic at all (the drives), I have the same thing and Im not gay. Its seriously nothing to worry about :)
Yep its nothing to worry about just calm down its ok sit down and take a breather :)

[IfPiratesCouldFly]

are u guys sure? i mean, i could see that if i still wanted to have sex w/ girls and guys, but the sex w/ girls drive jsut shut down and the other one is up and that seems a little drastic for just horomones

Hormones are drastic little bastards.

And maybe lay off the masturbating for a bit, you'll be amazed how easily things will arouse you.

[Sandstorm]

Kauffmen, how long did u feel like this b4 u felt straight and normal again?

[Mr. Smithers]

I just really don't see how puberty and hormones can change the way you have feelings for a certain sex.

To me if you have feelings of the same sex then you are homosexual. Period.

But I guess its more than that. Because being gay myself I was always attracted to men and I never thought that its because I'm going through puberty.