CRisMine
August 15th, 2014, 11:48 AM
Okay, so I just joined this website today. Hello all!
I would like to come to guys for advice. So everyone knows Kik? Duh... I met this dude through a friend there because we were all invited to a group chat. He was from England *.* I love England and will be visiting there in 2016 (Most likely moving also) So we started talking, we talked every. single. day. I had told him that I was from Florida and he said that the girl he had been online dating was from Florida also. Her and I lived like 2 hours apart from eachother.(He was going to meet her by the end of the next year) No biggie. I really didn't care AT FIRST because I had no "more than friends" feelings towards him. It didn't happen until a month in when we became friends he told me that his girlfriend was thinking about breaking up with him because he poor and her mom wanted a rich guy. There was a guy in his girlfriend's area that her mom wanted her to date. (Mind you that he is 20 he girl is 17.) So of course the girl HAS to listen to her mother. He was heartbroken but I was there to help him. I was furious that this girl just broke up with him because of what her mom said. This was when the feelings started to come, I was ignoring them for the past few days prior to him telling me that he was single. We had SOOOO much in common and I guess this wasn't the right time to tell him but in the past I have out right told the guy I liked him and I have had gotten boyfriends because of that. I told him but I wasn't expecting him to be like: OMG I LIKE YOU TOO. Um he was talking to this girl for 6months before he met me and he was in love with her. So of course I got rejected kindly but I knew I was going to lol. So we talked for like another week and he had told me that he was talking to her and trying to get back with her. It didn't bother me until he told me he was going to talk to the mother and the girl said she'll do it and she would never do it. I kind of suspected that the mother didn't know about her daughter being in an online relationship but supposedly the mother wanted them to break up and blahblahhh. Like the things he told me about their situation was frustrating, but the worst part IT DIDN'T MAKE ANY SENSE. It bothered me because I REALLY LIKED this guy and he was trying to get back with this girl who made excuses after excuses of why he couldnt talk to the mother about dating her daughter. But a few days ago they got back together... Yeah. I just don't think she deserved him at all. I knew I could have treated him way better. He told me that if he didn't love this girl he would have gladly became mine. Ugh. I just wanted to ask... should I move or wait?
I would like to come to guys for advice. So everyone knows Kik? Duh... I met this dude through a friend there because we were all invited to a group chat. He was from England *.* I love England and will be visiting there in 2016 (Most likely moving also) So we started talking, we talked every. single. day. I had told him that I was from Florida and he said that the girl he had been online dating was from Florida also. Her and I lived like 2 hours apart from eachother.(He was going to meet her by the end of the next year) No biggie. I really didn't care AT FIRST because I had no "more than friends" feelings towards him. It didn't happen until a month in when we became friends he told me that his girlfriend was thinking about breaking up with him because he poor and her mom wanted a rich guy. There was a guy in his girlfriend's area that her mom wanted her to date. (Mind you that he is 20 he girl is 17.) So of course the girl HAS to listen to her mother. He was heartbroken but I was there to help him. I was furious that this girl just broke up with him because of what her mom said. This was when the feelings started to come, I was ignoring them for the past few days prior to him telling me that he was single. We had SOOOO much in common and I guess this wasn't the right time to tell him but in the past I have out right told the guy I liked him and I have had gotten boyfriends because of that. I told him but I wasn't expecting him to be like: OMG I LIKE YOU TOO. Um he was talking to this girl for 6months before he met me and he was in love with her. So of course I got rejected kindly but I knew I was going to lol. So we talked for like another week and he had told me that he was talking to her and trying to get back with her. It didn't bother me until he told me he was going to talk to the mother and the girl said she'll do it and she would never do it. I kind of suspected that the mother didn't know about her daughter being in an online relationship but supposedly the mother wanted them to break up and blahblahhh. Like the things he told me about their situation was frustrating, but the worst part IT DIDN'T MAKE ANY SENSE. It bothered me because I REALLY LIKED this guy and he was trying to get back with this girl who made excuses after excuses of why he couldnt talk to the mother about dating her daughter. But a few days ago they got back together... Yeah. I just don't think she deserved him at all. I knew I could have treated him way better. He told me that if he didn't love this girl he would have gladly became mine. Ugh. I just wanted to ask... should I move or wait?