I can't hit puberty made fun of

[WRofFootball3685]

I am 14 years old and I am the weakest person in my school and the weakest person I've have ever seen. I am 5'0 tall and my voice hasn't even gotten deep yet and the only thing that I do have is hair around my balls and it's not even that much though. I get made fun of for being so little and a lot of people do pick on me because I'm small and even I did do something I wouldn't hurt them at all and I feel like I need to hurry up and grow already or at least let me get stronger and my voice get deeper I lift weights a lot but it doesn't help any sometimes I think I should just take steroids I know they're bad for u but at this point I have no other choice and I also think this is the reason I don't have a girlfriend.land never had one.

[Remora]

I don't have a girlfriend (or boyfriend) either, but i'm a early bloomer, 6' tall with relatively broad shoulders, and for some reason people have called me cute (0.0) before. (I also have a 7.2" long penis with a girth of 5.5", but they wouldn't get to see it unless they were my girlfriend).

The main problem for me is that i'm so shy. Are you sure your problem is that you haven't started puberty yet?

[ksdnfkfr]

I'm 14 in a few days and 5 feet tall. 90 lbs. skinny, pale, almost zero body hair, little kid voice. And I know a few guys on the forums my age as small or smaller. Funny thing is am real muscular when i flex. but am sill a skinny little kid. you can't force yourself to grow and develop faster without damaging yourself.

[Second Chance]

I am 14 years old and I am the weakest person in my school and the weakest person I've have ever seen. I am 5'0 tall and my voice hasn't even gotten deep yet and the only thing that I do have is hair around my balls and it's not even that much though. I get made fun of for being so little and a lot of people do pick on me because I'm small and even I did do something I wouldn't hurt them at all and I feel like I need to hurry up and grow already or at least let me get stronger and my voice get deeper I lift weights a lot but it doesn't help any sometimes I think I should just take steroids I know they're bad for u but at this point I have no other choice and I also think this is the reason I don't have a girlfriend.land never had one.

There's a couple of issues here, and I will see if I can break them down.

Firstly, the kids at your school making fun of you for something beyond your control are jerks, and the problem is with them and not you. Honestly, making fun of you for not growing is like getting mad at the sun for not shining during a solar eclipse. Short of your classmates being God I seriously doubt that they're perfect and have ideal bodies. The next person that makes fun of you for body you should remind them of their faults. After all, even the more well developed kids are going to have hygiene issues, acne, and other problems. I am sure why the other kids are picking on you is because they have their own issues and are trying to distract from them by picking on you. Just don't give them the sense of satisfaction by giving them a reaction.

As for your size, to be honest, you're actually pretty normal for your age. There's a lot of 14 year olds who are kind of small like you, and you are hardly alone in that area. I think there was one other guy on this specific thread who is just like you, and there are a lot of other 14 year olds and even some guys who are slightly older than you who are your size. I know it may sound patronizing when I tell you not to worry, but the fact remains that you will grow on your own, and you just may start puberty in earnest by the time you're 15. Your situation is not abnormal, and there's plenty of guys who start puberty a bit later which is not a big deal.

If it means anything, I would have much rather have had a body like yours because you have a heck of a lot body maintenance than the more developed kids. At least by the time you reach your adult body you will know how to take care of it unlike kids who shoot up at 12/13 years old with adult like bodies but with minds of a child who do not know how to care for their bodies. At least you can get away with not having to deal with hair, sweat, and all the other lovely things that come with puberty for at least another year or two. Assuming you are not too developed downstairs as well, then hopefully you can have dry orgasms for a little while longer. All in all, you get the benefit of not having all the responsibilities of an adult body while still being a teenager.

As for the girlfriend issue, I would not be in such a big hurry for that. It is not like you have to have a girlfriend in order to be an official teenager, and finding a partner happens when it does. All because some boys have girlfriends doesn't mean that you have to have one to prove your manhood. There are plenty of guys who are single well into their late teens and early 20s. When the time is right, then you'll find the right person; just focus on enjoying your life for now because you have the rest of your life to be an adult.

Finally, you really should talk to your parents, older siblings, older cousin, or some trusted person about your feelings to put them in perspective. Don't keep your feelings inside, and talk things out to someone responsible so that you know that everything we're saying is true and is not just written to make you feel better.

You're more normal than you think, and you'll be fine within a year in terms of development.

[Straya]

I am 14 years old and I am the weakest person in my school and the weakest person I've have ever seen. I am 5'0 tall and my voice hasn't even gotten deep yet and the only thing that I do have is hair around my balls and it's not even that much though. I get made fun of for being so little and a lot of people do pick on me because I'm small and even I did do something I wouldn't hurt them at all and I feel like I need to hurry up and grow already or at least let me get stronger and my voice get deeper I lift weights a lot but it doesn't help any sometimes I think I should just take steroids I know they're bad for u but at this point I have no other choice and I also think this is the reason I don't have a girlfriend.land never had one.

steroids can fuck your body up alot more than they will help you if there not taken under medical supervison but serriously your only 14 and by what youve said puberty has started but if your not seeing any major changes in a few years then its time to be worried

[Wyatt 13]

Dude I just hit 14, 5', below average down there and no pubes. For some guys take more time to get all the manly stuff so hang in there and don't sweat that much man. I'm not an expert but don't take anything w/o medical supervision. Keep doing your gym routine and practice some sport would help.

[Brightwolf]

I am 14 years old and I am the weakest person in my school and the weakest person I've have ever seen. I am 5'0 tall and my voice hasn't even gotten deep yet and the only thing that I do have is hair around my balls and it's not even that much though. I get made fun of for being so little and a lot of people do pick on me because I'm small and even I did do something I wouldn't hurt them at all and I feel like I need to hurry up and grow already or at least let me get stronger and my voice get deeper I lift weights a lot but it doesn't help any sometimes I think I should just take steroids I know they're bad for u but at this point I have no other choice and I also think this is the reason I don't have a girlfriend.land never had one.

Don't worry. Your probably a late-bloomer, like me. I started puberty at your age. And although people do make fun of me for it (and other things) I try not to let it get to you. It may be hard, but try to ignore it. Oh, don't take steroids. They will do horrible things to you.

[chris97]

Its ok I'm not strong and my voice refuses to be deep so its ok and maybe your just a late bloomer

[WRofFootball3685]

Well it's kinda to late bit letting it get to me I've already been suspended twice and today was our 7th day of school (we started Thursday) and I almost got suspended again but I'll try.

[Dennis98]

It is sure that you hit puberty , but genes are miracle ... You should look more at your parents and your family tree , for your future look ... Anyway , I always knew that I am going to be at Jeff Rudom style , 6'4" tall , and about 105kg , strong and with extremely broad shoulders for my age , a lot of body hair , but my main problem is my "baby face" , although I have 15 years , I have face of 12-13 year old , so I now dont shave my facial hair because of this problem ...

[AdamS]

I am 14 and much the same but I dont get made fun of, not seriously..makes me think the guys making fun are either jerks or it is "banter"

Most my friends make fun of each other but I know they have each others back too!

[Erik13]

I am 14 years old and I am the weakest person in my school and the weakest person I've have ever seen. I am 5'0 tall and my voice hasn't even gotten deep yet and the only thing that I do have is hair around my balls and it's not even that much though. I get made fun of for being so little and a lot of people do pick on me because I'm small and even I did do something I wouldn't hurt them at all and I feel like I need to hurry up and grow already or at least let me get stronger and my voice get deeper I lift weights a lot but it doesn't help any sometimes I think I should just take steroids I know they're bad for u but at this point I have no other choice and I also think this is the reason I don't have a girlfriend.land never had one.

i share your frustration. i have groan but i have no pubes at all. only in the past few weeks ive been able to ejaculate but only if i am playing around with my friend. i hoped that over the sumer i could grow some pubes b4 school started. i am going into the 8th grade and i will probably be the only guy with nothing down there. ill just say that i am shaving it. meybe you can say the same thing.