Relationship...

[Foamy]

So, I've been in a relationship with my girl for a year now. But lately I've been feeling doubts, like what if it doesn't work out etc etc. There are a few reasons for these feelings. One is that I'm going to college and she's going to a college in town. While I am only about forty or fifty minutes away, I don't know if possibly conflicting schedules would be a good thing or not. Another thing is that, while I've said before I've confirmed my sexuality, I still question it. And lately my roommate of all people and I have been having very sexual conversations. And I can't tell whether he's serious or not.


So now, my fellow friends on vt, I want advice. Anything will help. Thanks :)

[Spritsy]

Tell her how you honestly feel. If you don't think it'll work out with the distance, then tell her. She needs to know how you feel.

The only way youll get to the answer you want is by talking to her.

[Gumleaf]

When life circumstances change, having doubts is very normal. Not being close together at times when you are used to being together will make things harder too. As for your sexual conversations and your sexuality, that is something only you can figure out and if you do find yourself leaning towards guys and stuff, then that's when you need to talk to her about it. In the meantime, concentrate on how your relationship will go while you're at different collage's and make time to talk to her about how your relationship will work with this change. At the end of the day, communication is the key.