Worries over girl

[Aventzger]

Hey people,
I got attached recently to this girl. We both like each other and we've been talking to each other for 3-5 months before we got together. 2 days ago, I realised she's been behaving differently from from she has been before we were together. She used to laugh at my jokes like :"HAHAHAHAAH". Now all she does is :"hahaha". She also doesn't use emojis as often as she used too. I know something is up but I tried asking her but she always insist that she is fine. Maybe she is actually happy and I'm psyching myself out but her strange behaviour is making me dead worried to the point I'm thinking that I'm a horrible boyfriend.
Please help me. How can I help her or find out if she has something troubling her? :c

[ImCoolBeans]

It's not really possible to tell how she's really feeling if she's not telling you, and you are only basing these thoughts off of how she's been responding to your texts. Try asking her in person, or talking it out in person. It will probably get you a lot further than asking over text.

[Thatcooldude]

What Mr.CoolBeans said. If you guys are just communicating through text then there's no point. It's always best to take things face to face if you can.

[Klokotnitza]

It's not really possible to tell how she's really feeling if she's not telling you, and you are only basing these thoughts off of how she's been responding to your texts. Try asking her in person, or talking it out in person. It will probably get you a lot further than asking over text.

This! Only texting in a relationship doesn't work. You're missing 90% of the things that make a relationship.Take her outside and you will have your answer and might get even more ;).Good luck.

[Gumleaf]

I have a thought on this. As a relationship grows and develops, the little thing that sometimes we found especially great about someone can become less great and more normal and routine over time for some couples. Perhaps this is the case here and why she doesn't think anything is up? Sometimes our own insecurities can make us think things are much much worse then they actually are. But perhaps if it worries you so much, i'd do what has been suggested before me.

[Aventzger]

I have a thought on this. As a relationship grows and develops, the little thing that sometimes we found especially great about someone can become less great and more normal and routine over time for some couples. Perhaps this is the case here and why she doesn't think anything is up? Sometimes our own insecurities can make us think things are much much worse then they actually are. But perhaps if it worries you so much, i'd do what has been suggested before me.
Well, just an update, I spoke with one of her closest friends and she told me that she is going back to depressive thoughts and cutting herself. I'm doing the best I can for her by taking her mind off those bad thoughts. I try my very best to spend time with her even though I'm really busy preparing for my national exams,thus leading to most of our time spent online.

[collapsing_rain]

Oh man maybe you could get for her gifts that she likes? Like chocolates and flowers. But why is she depressed? Just try to be there physically as much as possible!