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vegas
August 11th, 2014, 11:16 PM
Well I have had an issue with speaking to people my entire life and I have been very shy. This problem got worse when I moved when I was 13 to a completely different state. I go to an all boys school and don't have the easy opportunity of seeing them every day and getting to know them. I have had friends try to hook me up but I am just to nervous and (I feel like a wuss saying this but)scared of what they would think. I am wanting to have a relationship but where I used to live I was friend zoned by everyone because I was the "Nice Guy." I just was wondering if any ladies can give me some advice on what to talk about at least because I am not a very good conversation starter. Also any advice on how how to approach girls would be helpful also.

Thanks.

Klokotnitza
August 12th, 2014, 03:53 AM
I am not a lady,but i will help you,because at least from my point of view i have been where you are at and it's horrible.First of all i am going to give you two youtube videos that will help you alot.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSURldy2EJE&index=6&list=PLt3u9VXV3UGQ3LDZMu5Yc9P-3Byi09IH-
and
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2iGk87bug2s&list=PLt3u9VXV3UGQ3LDZMu5Yc9P-3Byi09IH-&index=2 .
Now i am going to give you some tips myself.Be confident,also Cocky helps.Never be needy about a girl,that is very turning off.
Just aproach them with all the confidence you've got.
Some openers i am use:
1) I need a girl's oppinion: If you had to choose a present what would you choose- A dog or a bunny?
2)*Point at her*- YOU STOP!My name is ...... nice to meet you.
if she asks you why you stopped her,act cool and tell her that she is just gorgeous and that you had to come to speak to her.you're a cool guy and you don't need a reason.ok?

metallic_pink
August 12th, 2014, 10:15 AM
Just be yourself! It'll take around 2 or 3 (or even more) hangouts before you get comfortable with someone. Take the opportunity to socialize and soon you'll be more confident by being THE "nice guy".

Hope that helps!

jenny_99
August 13th, 2014, 12:11 PM
when u look good just say hi xd