im almost 14 and havnt lost my virginity

[bored4evah]

So im almost 14 and I have not lost my virginity or even done anything remotley sexual (give a guy a blowjob, handjob etc) and I normally hear girls younger than me talking about how they had sex with their boyfriend last night and stuff like that. I don't really want to loose my virginity yet but im starting to think im weird for not doing it. Can I get some opinions please?

[LouBerry]

So im almost 14 and I have not lost my virginity or even done anything remotley sexual (give a guy a blowjob, handjob etc) and I normally hear girls younger than me talking about how they had sex with their boyfriend last night and stuff like that. I don't really want to loose my virginity yet but im starting to think im weird for not doing it. Can I get some opinions please?

I was sixteen before I even thought about doing those things. My opinion is that you shouldn't do any of that, but definitely not sex, until you are out of high school and can make your own decisions. You aren't weird for not doing anything, and, should you decide to, you aren't weird for that either. It's all about your comfort and what you think is right for you.

[ozteen]

Don't do anything because you feel like you have to. You'll know when you're ready....

[Renata_cmp]

There's nothing wrong wih you at all!!!! Never do something because 'your friends' did it, it's the best to do things you will regret. Some people lose their virignity at 13, others at 30, there's no rules. You have to do it when you're ready and when you want to.

[Daniella98]

Sounds to me like you are ready.. But dont let desperation get the best of you. If you rush it and just take the first interested guy, your first time can be a disappointing experience. It will happen when it will, dont worry.

[evgenia]

You are definitely NOT weird for wanting to lose your virginity just for the sake of it! I didn't lose mine until I was 15 ... and tbh that was early enough. I bet half the girls who boast about having sex at a younger age than you are probably telling lies. Some girls think it's a status symbol to have had sex at a young age, but in my opinion you need to wait until you have found the right guy and not hurry into it. As Daniella98 above has said your first time could well be a disappointing experience just for the sake of saying "I've done it!"

[AnnaThaBabe]

dont do anything if you dont want to or are not ready. some are earlier some are later, there's nothing right or wrong here.

[Jennboh]

i havent lost mine yet

[Emmaaa]

I wouldn't rush into it if you don't feel ready.... Just wist for the right time and when it does come along be sensible about it

[Taryn98]

no rush to do it, everyone does it at a different time

[biancachica]

there is no rush especially at 14. Ive lost mine at 14 and was probably one of the first. Im 17 now and i have friends that are still virgins.

[Karkat]

Absolutely no rush! Honestly, IMO it's weird when people start doing things so young. I get a little sqweebed out when I hear of 11-13 year olds who have had consensual sex.

I don't judge them, honestly? I wanted it too at that age, but hooooo boy am I glad I waited to become sexually active until 16.

[LifeOfLove]

I wouldn't be that worried about it. I was a virgin until my 17th birthday, so you've definitely got some time. Don't do it because it seems like you should, wait until you want to and you think you are ready to, and you have a good guy in your life (or girl if that's your thing) and you'll be glad you waited!

[Magenta]

You are totally normal. I kinda had sex with a girl when I was 16 but it wasn't really all that enjoyable. But as for all the other stuff like sex with a guy, blowjobs, handjobs, whatever? I'm 19 and still haven't. Nor do I really want to right now.

It's all about your comfort level and how responsible you're going to be about it. There's no real age you're supposed to do anything at.

[hannahxo13]

You have nothing to worry about, I was 17 when I lost mine. It should be a special experience that you know you are ready for, and it should be with someone you trust and have feelings for. I wouldn't rush it, some people wait until they are adults! It's just personal preference, but there's no rush!

[shaune]

You Will know when the Time is right to have sex

[CheekyBird]

I'm 17... And it haven't been kissed never mind anything else. There's no rush and don't let anyone pressure you.

[nikkissippi121]

I'm 19, and the most I've ever done is make out with a guy, and, in fact, I wasn't expecting it - he said he wanted to kiss me, and I liked him, so I said okay, and next thing I knew he had his tongue in my mouth! XD And yeah, I feel really weird about it sometimes, but it's better to feel weird but know I'm being true to my morals than to have done something and regret it. :)

[assassin161]

you only 14, your not really meant to lose it yet, most countries its 16-17 when you can.

[emily-candace]

Im 18 and havent lost my V card yet. and not planning on giving it to some jerk just so he can get off and have a place to put his load. besides im not ready to be a mom if something goes wrong.

[KylieR13]

So im almost 14 and I have not lost my virginity or even done anything remotley sexual (give a guy a blowjob, handjob etc) and I normally hear girls younger than me talking about how they had sex with their boyfriend last night and stuff like that. I don't really want to loose my virginity yet but im starting to think im weird for not doing it. Can I get some opinions please?

GOOD! You shouldn't do ANYTHING sexual (other than masturbation, if you like) until you are married.

[Croconaw]

There is nothing wrong with that.

[kalha123]

you and me same

[Lillynet]

Well first of all fre your mind from thinkighg that you look wierd because yo uare virgin :) its your choice when yo u will ahve sex or not :) if yo udont feel like it you dont do it :) . dont try to be like the rest of the girls .....be your self :) and trust me that worth it

[Leena_2003]

Well I am 14 now and I also am well and truly a virgin, and likely to be one for quite a bit longer. I have never even dated someone. I think most girls our age (13/14) are more or less in the same situation, so don't think you are the odd one out. And don't do something you are not ready for.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Well I am 14 now and I also am well and truly a virgin, and likely to be one for quite a bit longer. I have never even dated someone. I think most girls our age (13/14) are more or less in the same situation, so don't think you are the odd one out. And don't do something you are not ready for.
Leena good for you and anyone else in that age group are still a virgin to many give in to peer pressure and lost their virginity in their early teens.

[Atlantis]

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