A weird 'thing' happened with my brother...

[Renata_cmp]

Hello everyone, i wanted to rapport a rather weird stuff that happened to me a few days ago, and i don't know how to take it.
Me and my older brother were watching TV, both in our pjs. I think at a point my bro began to doze, nothing special. But i noticed (it was pretty visible in pjs) that he started to have an erection. I couldn't help but watching it a little bit, but soon he woke up, and i just stopped paying attention anyway.
The thing i'm not sure is, well first i'm still thinking about what i saw, this image stays in my mind bizarrely, but i'm not turned on by it (i don't think i am (i hope)), and second i keep thinking maybe he did that on purpose, i'm probably paranoid, but the way he was positioned made me think he wanted me to see it...
We have absolutely no history of that kind in our home, and none of us is walking around naked or even in his/her underwear...
I don't know what to think of it, does it seems like an accident to you*? Is it normal that i can't put that image away from my head*? I hope it's nothing and i'm just being overly suspicious...

[KylieR13]

Totally accidental. Guys have 8 erections a day; they can't control it. If it bothers you, it's totally ok to tell him to reposition.

[shaune]

Totally normal

[Renata_cmp]

I hope so yeah. Well i'm sure he would be super embarassed if i talk about that with him... I don't know why i can't stop thinking about what i saw though, even if it wasn't that much...

[Pensive]

To the OP - These things happen, just forget about it as an accident.

In terms of thinking of it, it's natural to be curious from a biological perspective, especially if you haven't much sexual exposure experience in real life. Don't worry about it (:

Edited. ~Hannah

[Abnormal]

Your brother got in an erection in his sleep. No big deal. That happens. That'll happen to your husband and that'll happen to your son and grandson. Its just random. "Nocturnal penile tumescence (abbreviated as NPT) is a spontaneous erection of the penis during sleep or when waking up. All men without physiological erectile dysfunction experience nocturnal penile tumescence, usually three to five times during the night, typically during REM sleep."

So yes. What happened that night was normal, in fact its healthy. The only reason you're thinking about it so much is because well...you're a girl and that was an erect penis. Just like guys can't get the images of someone's boobs or butt out of their head. Your body doesn't care who you're related to. You'll be fine.

And believe me, if that image turned you on, you'd know.

[Renata_cmp]

thanks for the answers! :) i feel better now.^^ i've might been a little turned on by it, but it's nothing to worry about i guess.

[evgenia]

thanks for the answers! :) i feel better now.^^ i've might been a little turned on by it, but it's nothing to worry about i guess.

To be honest I think you were possibly turned on by this, even though you probably didn't want to be. I am sure too you were possibly a little curious as to how your brother is developing or has developed to the extent of what is happening to his penis. You have one of two roads to go down ... either try to forget it or talk to him (in hopefully a non sexual way) about it, in such a way as to not embarrass him. If you take this road you will probably find out if it was deliberate or not!

[Renata_cmp]

i would like to talk to him, but i have no idea how to pull that off in a non sexual way... x)

[assassin161]

its fine, its a natural thing

[evgenia]

i would like to talk to him, but i have no idea how to pull that off in a non sexual way... x)

On reflection it may be best to say nothing ... BUT ... wait and see if a similar situation re-occurs.

[Renata_cmp]

I'll do that.^^
8 a day?? Really this much?

[AnnaThaBabe]

I'll do that.^^
8 a day?? Really this much?

probably more for some guys... :)

[Jennboh]

totally normal on both parts

[Taryn98]

It's normal for guy's to get random erections. Don't talk to him about it. That's super creepy.

[cutie123]

My brother gets them too! Guys our age got a lot of sexual tension going on! He's probably more embarrassed about it then u!

[kentucky girl]

Totally normal. My brother gets them all the time.

[Renata_cmp]

Well, it happened again today (a moment ago actually), and it was worse this time :/ ... Same situation, we were watching a movie, in our pjs yada yada... except this time he was wearing these sorts with button flies, apparently unbuttoned, so yeah, it poked out and i had his erection in full view this time...:/ I just got up and go to my room. I hear him going back to his as i'm typing this... It's so weird to write this stuff on a forum, but what should i do, tell him? Tell the parents*? Do you still think it was accidental*? It's kind of creeping me out...

[Jennboh]

he just sounds like a horny boy to me. he prolly went into his room to masturbate

[Appl]

He sounds pretty normal, I would be turned on

[Luminous]

WARNING: Please stay on topic and do not fight. If it continues there may be more severe consequences.

[Renata_cmp]

Once, maybe i think it can be unintentionnal, but twice, plus completely pulling it out like this... But again, that's not his kind, he's not perverted at all... gnerf, i don't know... my mind is kinda blank right now.

[Appl]

Once, maybe i think it can be unintentionnal, but twice, plus completely pulling it out like this... But again, that's not his kind, he's not perverted at all... gnerf, i don't know... my mind is kinda blank right now.

If I were you I would talk to him about it.

[Renata_cmp]

Maybe, but what can i say? I really have no idea...

[Jennboh]

Once, maybe i think it can be unintentionnal, but twice, plus completely pulling it out like this... But again, that's not his kind, he's not perverted at all... gnerf, i don't know... my mind is kinda blank right now.

lol are u sure? most boys are perverted.

[Renata_cmp]

maybe he is but it don't show then. i am too, i think... i've watched his penis for a little time before getting into my room... it's the first 'real' erect penis i saw x( i think it kind of made me horny but it's super creepy...

[Jennboh]

maybe he is but it don't show then. i am too, i think... i've watched his penis for a little time before getting into my room... it's the first 'real' erect penis i saw x( i think it kind of made me horny but it's super creepy...

lol so am i a little i guess. :D and dont worry about it making u horny. thats normal. and congrats on seeing ur first hard cock! :P

[Renata_cmp]

Well... thanks lol... I just wish it wasn't my brother's... a part of me wanted to touch it (and i almost want to see it again) but i know it's wrong... i can't put that out of my mind... damn what should i do?

[Jennboh]

Well... thanks lol... I just wish it wasn't my brother's... a part of me wanted to touch it (and i almost want to see it again) but i know it's wrong... i can't put that out of my mind... damn what should i do?

just dont think about it as ur brothers and have fun masturbating about it! :D

[Renata_cmp]

to be honest i already did...>< but i still wonder if he wanted me to see it...

[Jennboh]

to be honest i already did...>< but i still wonder if he wanted me to see it...

i dunno. boys are weird.:P

[Renata_cmp]

I don't want to do anything with him... That's just the sight of the penis that made me horny... but in a sense i kind of want to see it again, and when that happened i really wanted to touch it... Do you think i'm starting to get incestuous feelings? It's seems scary to me...

[Jennboh]

no i think u just saw a hard cock, it made u horny because its a hard cock and you want to play with it. totally normal.

[Abbeys]

This isn't the same but it's the same principle,I think.:confused:

I had a thing for my uncle,he was/is as hot as hell and had a huge package even unerect(is that a word?).

I used to let him catch me staring at his crotch which gave him an enormous boner.

Nothing ever happened,nothing ever would.

It's natural.:)

[Renata_cmp]

thanks for the answers, it makes me feel a little better. :) the thing is, i took a picture of it...(i should've told that earlier), i don't know why, i can see cocks if i want too on the internet, but that pics seems to turn me on more... plus isn't it weird to get horny just by looking at a penis pic?

[Jennboh]

thanks for the answers, it makes me feel a little better. :) the thing is, i took a picture of it...(i should've told that earlier), i don't know why, i can see cocks if i want too on the internet, but that pics seems to turn me on more... plus isn't it weird to get horny just by looking at a penis pic?

nope!

[Renata_cmp]

Damn i'm such a weirdo ><

[jenna123]

dont worry about it, guys have random erections all the time. Just dont mention anything i think it will be better.

[Renata_cmp]

But why did he have his shorts unbuttonened...? Well, wether it was intentional or not, should i delete the picture i took?

[sophiaLockhart]

only you can make that choice renata, if you feel guilty for having it delete it, if its a case of curiosity or a reminder of your first erecto keep it, hope this helps :)

and as to the unbuttoned shorts, the buttons could just be loose and the pressure of the erect penis could of pushed the buttons out of the holes

[Renata_cmp]

I feel guilty a little bit, but i don't wanna delete it, :/ although i know it's wrong...

[sophiaLockhart]

then it seems to me you have decided already
it may be worth just taking your time and thinking about it

[Renata_cmp]

yeah i'll think about it, and we'll see if that happen again... if so, i will talk to him about this.

[sophiaLockhart]

good idea :)

[hannahxo13]

That's totally normal, guys get those all the time when they sleep, and they can't really control it. If it really bothers you I would try talking to him about it, but I don't think there's anything to worry about.:)

[vickilynn]

I say it is normal. Guys penises have a mind of their on. My family is nude all the time at home. My dad and brother seem to get erections when they are asleep or tired. We can be watching tv and one of them would fall asleep. Next thing you know, a full erection is there. I'd asked both of them and they both said when they get very tired or when they wake up, they usually have a full blown. They both said they wasn't horny, but it happens that way. At first, I thought it was sexual. But if they fall in front me and they are dead asleep, and it grows, they are getting those thoughts are trying to get hard.

[juanita]

I think if you don't want to see your brothers penis you can look away or leave the room. That should let your bro no seeing is penis its not appreciated. If you want to stay and watch it doesn't make you weird at all, your just looking.

[Sarah_Ward]

I have heard that its pretty normal for boys to get like random erections, im not sure why it happens either. i guess its what there dreaming about or something like that.

I definately wouldnt mention it to him coz i thknk he would be embarrassed and im sure it was completely innocent too, it was just the position he was in at the time i guess.

One way of looking at it is that I know hes your brother and its wrong to like think of him in a sex way and I dont like incest and I would NEVER do anything like that with any members of my famly however... your body is designed to react to boys and lets face it, hes a boy and you knew that he had got an errection, something we cant obviously do and its just your natural reaction when you see a boy like that. You didnt DO anything so its okand your bound to think about it because its not a regular thinghappening too.

Hope this helps :)

[Renata_cmp]

thanks for all the answers!
I have heard that its pretty normal for boys to get like random erections, im not sure why it happens either. i guess its what there dreaming about or something like that.

I definately wouldnt mention it to him coz i thknk he would be embarrassed and im sure it was completely innocent too, it was just the position he was in at the time i guess.

One way of looking at it is that I know hes your brother and its wrong to like think of him in a sex way and I dont like incest and I would NEVER do anything like that with any members of my famly however... your body is designed to react to boys and lets face it, hes a boy and you knew that he had got an errection, something we cant obviously do and its just your natural reaction when you see a boy like that. You didnt DO anything so its okand your bound to think about it because its not a regular thinghappening too.

Hope this helps :)
Do you think it was normal that his shorts was unbuttoned? Doesn't it seems a little weird to you?

[Sarah_Ward]

thanks for all the answers!

Do you think it was normal that his shorts was unbuttoned? Doesn't it seems a little weird to you?

Yeah, i guess it does seem a little odd, maybe he knew what he was doing...

[Sminkelaks]

Completely normal, and since he dozed off, that makes it even more normal, since they tend to get hard in their sleep. :)

[Renata_cmp]

well, after this little story it appears that when we're alone and in our pjs, i tend to look (quite often...) at his crotch, i'm a bit embarassed but yeah... sometimes i can clearly see the outline... just once he got his unbuttoned shorts again, but he didn't get hard this time, to my relief, but also kind of disappointment...

[Jdnumber]

I have seen my brother get hard in his shorts during movies and stuff pretty regularly, even seen it poke out his fly like you did. Totally natural, and I also got turned on like you did.

[amatester95]

When I was around 10 I used to play with my gf who was also 10 and his brother who was 13-14 at that time. I remember several times we would roleplay where he became the patient and made us a doctor and a nurse. He would instruct us to check him thoroughly even in the pants, would take the pants off and ask us to move hands up and down his penis. He would come in just a few strokes and hell we were saying there is something wrong what was that white stuff that came out. Lol. He knew what was going on so you never know.

[allisonmyers]

lol so normal its boring don't say anything until it happens again and even then don't say anything that could hurt his feelings

[Renata_cmp]

you think that boring? lol When it happened 'boring' is probably the last thing i would've think of!

[allisonmyers]

how many times has this happened

[Renata_cmp]

well twice, once only through the pyj and one completely exposed...

[allisonmyers]

what is your ultimate goal here tho like to embarrass him or to see more ? if it happns and hes doing it on purpose and you don't wan him tell him no more

[Renata_cmp]

Well if it happen again, i guess i would be turned on again, but it didn't happened since a while, im really starting to think it was accidental.

[Elena_]

Well if it happen again, i guess i would be turned on again, but it didn't happened since a while, im really starting to think it was accidental.

When I was 11 , I saw accidentally the pen*s of a friend. At that moment , I didn't feel anything (I was just a child) But now , well, sometimes I remember it , I don't know why ... so ... I think that getting horny with this stuff is quite normal xD

[Renata_cmp]

i totally get you. Plus it was the first real (hard) one i ever saw...

[Pensive]

i totally get you. Plus it was the first real (hard) one i ever saw...

Are you still looking at that picture of his erection when touching yourself?

This is a tricky one, and only you can decide what to do about it. Just to say it's all 'normal' and a part of growing up (:

[Renata_cmp]

lol actually yes i still do...

[Laraa.01]

I've seen my brother hard a few times now, we are close in age, and I have to say it turns me on way more than it should :)

[Renata_cmp]

really? The whole thing or only through his clothes?

[Laraa.01]

Both :P

[PatrickV]

oops wrong section, mod delete this post please.

[Cangirl]

Happens all the time to my brothers so don't worry about it. We were told that its normal and natural for that to happen to boys anytime of the day and just as easy when the wind blows lol.

[Renata_cmp]

well.. it finally happened again x__x he was sleeping lying flat on his back in the guests room bed (usually noone sleeps in there) with his boxers on his knees and a full erection out... :o why is he doing this? the door was open, the room was close to mine... im so confused. Again, i kinda spend some time to look at it, and it made me really horny, i even tried to touch it, but finally didnt... Somethings wrong in my family...

[Abbeys]

If he was lying flat on his stomach how could you see his dick?

If a guy has got an erection and is lying on his stomach his dick usually points toward his chest.

[Renata_cmp]

i meant back, my bad... :o

[Dyri_14]

Its normal:) don´t worry

[violetdaisy]

What stopped you from touching it? is it big? :) I problably wouldnt be able to stop myself if it was me :P

[Renata_cmp]

it feels wrong, because he's my brother... but yeah i donr know i was only thinking about the cock, not the person attached to, lol.

[violetdaisy]

Did you masturbate and think about it later? :P

I understand why it feels wrong but also why it feels exciting :)
I would have touched it a little.. what is the harm in that?

[Renata_cmp]

yes i do... i often look at that pic actually, but touching without consent is blah to me...

[violetdaisy]

did you enter the room when he was sleeping? :) or just watching from a distance

[Renata_cmp]

yeah i entered the room, but not for long...

[NickTheStar]

normal.

[violetdaisy]

a friend of mine masturbated standing beside her brothers bed watching him when he was sleeping naked once. She confessed it when she was drunk ^^

[Renata_cmp]

so im not the only one...

[violetdaisy]

oh.. :)

[Jilly]

Do you think there is any chance he might be doing this on purpose? Like, maybe he is not even sleeping?

Do you think he knows anything? Like, even if he hasn't seen you do anything, maybe he can read your manner or something?

I dunno. It sounds pretty hot that this happened and I don't see anything wrong with it. So he's your brother and most people find that weird, but if you like it you like it and there's no harm. I don't see a problem with playing with bros and sises either, but I think actual sex is too much.

Anyway, I think u r ok. I love seeing my brothers d***! SEXY!

[Kirina]

I think your brother is aware of the psychology that when a girl sees a penis, they will think about it, get horny and want to see more.
It's likely that he purposefully exploited this and if that's the case, that would also possibly mean that he wants you.

You say it's only his cock that is turning you on and that it has nothing to do with the person attached, I don't think that's true.

As I understand it. The shape, size (girth/length) and all these expectations of how a penis should be, doesn't matter to you. If the physical aspects of a penis is of little value to you, than the picture you have should be like any other dick pic. Yet you seem almost obsessed with his cock.

You think about it a lot, you hope to see it again. When your together and it doesn't slip out or something, you get disappointed. You took a picture of it (without consent) and it's maybe the only picture of dicks that you look at. When you masturbate, it's his dick you fantasize about and you even sometimes masturbate by his bedside when he sleeps.

If I was in this situation, I would be really frustrated.

What is wrong with doing it with your brother? Shouldn't hurt you or him, or anyone else. If you were to get pregnant and decide not to abort, there may be an increased chance of birth defects, this is rare. Usually it takes multiple generations of incest to have children with birth defects.

It's seen as wrong for the same reason homosexuality is seen as wrong, it's just absurd.

Ever seen a cute couple? I sometimes see some really cute couples and think like "They look soo cute together!!", if I were to find out that they were siblings. Should my idea of them suddenly change to something negative? No way that being aware of that fact can instantly change them from cute to disgusting.

What I'm trying to get at is. You shouldn't think of this as weird, because it really isn't. I'm not encouraging you to do anything with him tho (or maybe I am), but what happens is not for me to decide.

[neledisapersonne]

I would think it could be something on purpose if it was too often but in your case it seems nothing happened for a while now (if something that you are not telling here is happening then it changes the situation though) so I am not that sure that he is doing this on purpose, he may have just masturbated in the guest room because that's the only private place he could get at that moment. But dont worry about your feelings about the first one you've seen. Anyone would feel the same whoever it is attached to.

[Abbeys]

I think your brother wants you to play with it.:D

Next time he's asleep and he has an erection,you could start to touch it,if he continues to be asleep or pretends to be asleep, bring him off,if he wakes up and is shocked,you could say,you tried to get his shorts back on to cover his embarrassment!!!:D

I would be so frustrated I would just grab it and jerk it.:D

[Jilly]

I think your brother wants you to play with it.:D

Next time he's asleep and he has an erection,you could start to touch it,if he continues to be asleep or pretends to be asleep, bring him off,if he wakes up and is shocked,you could say,you tried to get his shorts back on to cover his embarrassment!!!:D

I would be so frustrated I would just grab it and jerk it.:D

Um, I don't know about that. Maybe it's on purpose, but if it's not, that could be a really bad thing! He might not believe it was to get his shorts on and anyway, would be awkward for him to deal with

[ClaraWho]

I think your brother wants you to play with it.:D

Next time he's asleep and he has an erection,you could start to touch it,if he continues to be asleep or pretends to be asleep, bring him off,if he wakes up and is shocked,you could say,you tried to get his shorts back on to cover his embarrassment!!!:D

I would be so frustrated I would just grab it and jerk it.:D

You think because he's naked in the privacy of his bedroom (or guest bedroom) and erect, 'he wants it'? Isn't that what rapists say about girls in short skirts? :/

Touching anybody whom you are not in a consensual sexual relationship with, who is either asleep or pretending to be, is sexual assault. Never, ever do so.

I'm guessing you got carried away with your response, and it's a hot fantasy perhaps, please don't take this comment personally but more as a general point.

[Abbeys]

You think because he's naked in the privacy of his bedroom (or guest bedroom) and erect, 'he wants it'? Isn't that what rapists say about girls in short skirts? :/

Touching anybody whom you are not in a consensual sexual relationship with, who is either asleep or pretending to be, is sexual assault. Never, ever do so.

I'm guessing you got carried away with your response, and it's a hot fantasy perhaps, please don't take this comment personally but more as a general point.

Hi Clara,I see you haven’t been around here very long and have yet to learn the foibles and idiosyncrasies of each particular poster but a couple of my less endearing qualities are being acerbic and facetious.

Which has been pointed out to me once or twice!!!

So if you look back over my post and look at the emoticons,then if you replace the “very happy” (which has a slightly demonic and mischievous look to it)with a “wink” which I don’t use because it’s patronising ,you will see my post was about as ironic as I can get and also if you read some of my other posts you will see what I said was completly out of character.

The most important thing is Renata would have known what I said was a load of crap!!!

HTH

Abbey,

XXX

BTW I would have PM'd this but you don't have enough posts.

[neledisapersonne]

Woah Abbey, you had me at foibles and I don't remember after idiosyncrasies :) That post should be taught as an example of complex grammar and vocabulary use :) Grammar nazis approve!!!

[ClaraWho]

Hi Clara,I see you haven’t been around here very long and have yet to learn the foibles and idiosyncrasies of each particular poster but a couple of my less endearing qualities are being acerbic and facetious.

Which has been pointed out to me once or twice!!!

So if you look back over my post and look at the emoticons,then if you replace the “very happy” (which has a slightly demonic and mischievous look to it)with a “wink” which I don’t use because it’s patronising ,you will see my post was about as ironic as I can get and also if you read some of my other posts you will see what I said was completly out of character.

The most important thing is Renata would have known what I said was a load of crap!!!

HTH

Abbey,

XXX

BTW I would have PM'd this but you don't have enough posts.

Hey Abbey,

I've been reading the forums for a month or so, but declined to register until recently. The problem is, unless I personally know your idiosyncratic proclivities and propensity to be facetious, there are too many on here who make similar statements with serious intent.

As I said, I may have singled out your post as an example of such genuine absurdity, without attributing you as a culprit. The issue is the speculative majority whom do not contribute but instead just read (like my former self), may take the advice as being forthright and excusatory.

And I think you mean 'sarcastic' rather than 'ironic' or I really am missing something :D.

Thanks for your reply, I shall know from now on your particular foibles and will take that into consideration upon replying (: It certainly adds a nice element of humour to the boards!

Nice to meet you (:

- Clara

P.S. Haha the PM rule makes sense I guess, but I get what you mean.

[Abbeys]

Hey Abbey,

I've been reading the forums for a month or so, but declined to register until recently. The problem is, unless I personally know your idiosyncratic proclivities and propensity to be facetious, there are too many on here who make similar statements with serious intent.

As I said, I may have singled out your post as an example of such genuine absurdity, without attributing you as a culprit. The issue is the speculative majority whom do not contribute but instead just read (like my former self), may take the advice as being forthright and excusatory.

And I think you mean 'sarcastic' rather than 'ironic' or I really am missing something :D.

Thanks for your reply, I shall know from now on your particular foibles and will take that into consideration upon replying (: It certainly adds a nice element of humour to the boards!

Nice to meet you (:

- Clara

P.S. Haha the PM rule makes sense I guess, but I get what you mean.

As verbal diarrhea goes that was quite good but I hope you didn’t spend too long with the dictionary,thesaurus and grammar check when you could have been doing something useful.

;););)

XXX

[ClaraWho]

As verbal diarrhea goes that was quite good but I hope you didn’t spend too long with the dictionary,thesaurus and grammar check when you could have been doing something useful.

;););)

XXX

Cool Life Story Brah! But like many natural wonders in this world, it all comes effortlessly :cool:;);)

[Legs]

I think he did doze off and had an erection. My boyfriend tells me he wakes up just about every morning with an erection. As for you not being able to get it out of your mind is also normal because it is kind of bizarre seeing that in your brother so it would be hard to stop thinking about it. That doesn't mean though that you were attracted to it.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Bumped a year

[neledisapersonne]

a year without any incidents I suppose..

[chloe999]

How old is he ? Boys get stiffies all the time

[Emerald Dream]

The OP is banned. :locked: