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Coesistere
March 17th, 2008, 02:58 AM
yo peoples, tiekid here and a couple mounth ago i had a realtionship that went down the drain, but i dont even think it got to a point where it even could, honestly. so here i go:

There is this girl named Emily and me and her became good friends
( brown eyes, not over weight but not average either, long curly hair and most of the time......DEPRESSED )

After hanging out more and more i eventualy ask her out
( we were on a double date with her friends and she ask me how i feel about her ) but the fact is i never fully knew if i liked her or not. like if i was asking her out because of my feelings or because of not want to hurt her feelings. pluz of top of that im IN COMPLETE confution about my sexuality ( as of now i think of my self bi but havnt really told anyone )
and to put the cherry on top ive been going through some problems with my family and school grade AND depression. for about a 2 mounths we went places after school and on weekends but never really did anything sexual besides holding hands on my bed. time went by and eventualy she gave me a note asking whats wrong and i had to break up with her ( our friend pretty much pushed us together to finaly talk 2 one another about it )
we are still friends but i dont know if i did was ever right or not. i mainly broke up with her
1. because of my frail feelings about her
2. because she always was never happy and i had to constatly cheer her up
3. all the extra chap going on in my life


so i just wana know if
- if i did the right thing asking her out
-if i did the right thing breaking up with her
- has/is anyone else going through this
- any other things you think i should know about what i went through and what im going through



thankz,
matthew

ScotsGirl
March 17th, 2008, 07:22 PM
You need to really think about how you feel about her.
It sounds like you've been avoiding it, even when you were trying to think about how you feel about her.
Put aside what your friends opinion is, put aside how she feels, just think about how you feel.

Were you really attracted to her? (I dont mean just physically) Did you have fun with her? Did you hate having to go home at the end of the night? Were you happy at the thought of when you next were going to see her?

Just think about it, and then you will know.
Goodluck Matthew :)
xxx

jay92
March 18th, 2008, 03:04 AM
what the person above said is right

PLEASE DONT USE THAT COLOUR AGAIN (my eyes are hurting)