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Body odah Man
August 11th, 2014, 04:41 AM
Right, so I was at a friend's place recently and we were watching Archer (for those who don't know the series it's got chicks with huge melons in it and just well rlly...slutty...) and I did not feel turned on. I also don't fantasize about naked chicks or feel totally turned on by girls bodies and stuff like that, yet I have had crushes on girls before. All that makes me wonder...does this mean I'm gay or could I be straight? R there other straight guys that feel this way? Please clarify the situation for me if you could guys, thanks :)
Lost in the Echo
August 11th, 2014, 04:45 AM
All that makes me wonder...does this mean I'm gay or could I be straight?
Well, do you feel any attraction towards other guys?
Croconaw
August 11th, 2014, 05:03 AM
You might be gay. It depends on how you feel towards men.
Remora
August 11th, 2014, 05:04 AM
You could be asexual, too.
Emerald Dream
August 11th, 2014, 05:13 AM
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Body odah Man
August 11th, 2014, 01:42 PM
Well, do you feel any attraction towards other guys?
I don't think so, no.
Lost in the Echo
August 11th, 2014, 04:10 PM
I don't think so, no.
Then you're not gay. As mentioned above, you could be asexual.
To me, it sounds like you're an asexual heteromantic ( meaning you don't feel sexual attraction towards the opposite sex, but you are emotionally attracted to females ).
In the end, only you can really decide what your sexuality is. You know yourself better than anyone else does.
Body odah Man
August 12th, 2014, 01:09 PM
Then you're not gay. As mentioned above, you could be asexual.
To me, it sounds like you're an asexual heteromantic ( meaning you don't feel sexual attraction towards the opposite sex, but you are emotionally attracted to females ).
In the end, only you can really decide what your sexuality is. You know yourself better than anyone else does.
Hmm. I can live with that analysis :) I assume that there's nothing wrong with being an asexual heteromaniac at least and perhaps you could be right. Thanks man :)
wasaby
August 12th, 2014, 01:12 PM
Its okay to be any sexual orientation and i think it is ur call, tv can be misleading it depends how u feel about men and women in real life :)
Body odah Man
August 13th, 2014, 01:19 PM
Its okay to be any sexual orientation and i think it is ur call, tv can be misleading it depends how u feel about men and women in real life :)
I honestly don't know. Was staring at this chick with her boobs kinda sticking out in the tram today and I didn't rlly feel like 'oh I wanna bang her' or have a hard on or anything like that like most boys would have. Things like that worry me.
Karkat
August 13th, 2014, 02:29 PM
I honestly don't know. Was staring at this chick with her boobs kinda sticking out in the tram today and I didn't rlly feel like 'oh I wanna bang her' or have a hard on or anything like that like most boys would have. Things like that worry me.
Eh, that's normal. I don't ever feel like I want to bang anyone on first glance. (Though I have found myself finding someone conventionally attractive, and hot damn. But I'm unsure that I actually have the hots for him. Which is good, because that'd be pretty awkward.
...I also forgot that he can read this forum, but I highly doubt that he'll see this anyways. Lel.)
Also, would like to mention that it's totally ok to not be turned on by a cartoon :P Some are, and that's ok too I guess, but I don't even think most people are.
Body odah Man
August 15th, 2014, 05:00 AM
Eh, that's normal. I don't ever feel like I want to bang anyone on first glance. (Though I have found myself finding someone conventionally attractive, and hot damn. But I'm unsure that I actually have the hots for him. Which is good, because that'd be pretty awkward.
...I also forgot that he can read this forum, but I highly doubt that he'll see this anyways. Lel.)
Also, would like to mention that it's totally ok to not be turned on by a cartoon :P Some are, and that's ok too I guess, but I don't even think most people are.
h, Ok. Makes me feel a bit better. Thanks man :)
Karkat
August 15th, 2014, 05:16 PM
h, Ok. Makes me feel a bit better. Thanks man :)
No problem :)
GoGoDiego
August 18th, 2014, 03:36 AM
If you are attracted to guys, then you're gay.
But if you are not attracted to girls or guys, you're asexual.
TeeGee
August 19th, 2014, 05:07 PM
I think you're normal. Straight normal. You didn't say you like guys. Just that you don't have the desire to have sex with every girl you see. You say you don't think about girls bodies, but you have had crushes on girls. Have you thought about having sex with them? If so, you're straight. Also, I don't think most guys want to bang every girl they see. Like the models in Sports Illustrated swim suit edition, I usually don't find any of them "hot" that I get an instant-boner and want to bang. But I definetly like girls and find some looks (Annalise Basso) over others (Miley Cyrus)
If you think about having sex with boys, then maybe not so straight.
Aajj333
August 19th, 2014, 10:28 PM
Most guys dont get turned on by cartoons. Not all people are turned on by the same thing, and its probably good you dont get turned on by large breasts because it is an unrealistic expectation in women. As far as your sexuality, you said you have had crushes on girls, and you have not made any indication you like men from your post, therefore it is my assumption that you are straight.
Body odah Man
August 20th, 2014, 12:33 PM
I think you're normal. Straight normal. You didn't say you like guys. Just that you don't have the desire to have sex with every girl you see. You say you don't think about girls bodies, but you have had crushes on girls. Have you thought about having sex with them? If so, you're straight. Also, I don't think most guys want to bang every girl they see. Like the models in Sports Illustrated swim suit edition, I usually don't find any of them "hot" that I get an instant-boner and want to bang. But I definetly like girls and find some looks (Annalise Basso) over others (Miley Cyrus)
If you think about having sex with boys, then maybe not so straight.
Thanks :)
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