CesarTyrus
August 9th, 2014, 04:53 AM
Hey all, first post, and the post is about one of my friends. In junior high, 6th grade, I met a girl named Sophia. She wasn't very popular, and did get bullied some. We became really close friends and I helped her with her depression in 6th grade, as well as developed feelings for her. I told her in 6th, she thought it was just a joke since people had been saying "are you two dating?" To us loads of times. She brushed it off, and like the confidence lacking kid I used to be, I didn't bring it up again.
Near the end of the year, she completely dropped me, and next year in about October, we became friends again. Unfortunately, she had started cutting, but I managed to help her out and convince her to go to the councilor. I asked her about why she dropped me and she brushed it off. She had definitively changed, and had started to like screaming bands like BVB and had become a fan girl. I was still friends with her, but she gushed on and on about them, which annoyed me, but I hid it. She also dropped the bomb of her moving to California after eighth grade, and a little bit before, I finally grew some balls and asked her out, saved up $20 for a movie, (no allowance, had to work outside for the money) and got rejected, the reason being that she only liked band members.
I talked to my friends, and eventually got fed up with all the sh*t she gave me and didn't give much in return, so, for most of the summer that year I wasn't her friend. My family had thought of moving to Pittsburgh in 2 or 3 years, so that was some encouragement to drop her, but, I recently got a text from her, (she kept my number, and got a new phone number since she texted me even though I blocked her) and said she was sorry for being a d*ck, and now we're friends again, and we're gonna enter 8th grade soon. We're now back to staying up late to text each other. I really don't know if I should keep this relationship up or not, since I might get attached to her again, but I really like talking to her and spending time with her. Any advice on what to do?
Near the end of the year, she completely dropped me, and next year in about October, we became friends again. Unfortunately, she had started cutting, but I managed to help her out and convince her to go to the councilor. I asked her about why she dropped me and she brushed it off. She had definitively changed, and had started to like screaming bands like BVB and had become a fan girl. I was still friends with her, but she gushed on and on about them, which annoyed me, but I hid it. She also dropped the bomb of her moving to California after eighth grade, and a little bit before, I finally grew some balls and asked her out, saved up $20 for a movie, (no allowance, had to work outside for the money) and got rejected, the reason being that she only liked band members.
I talked to my friends, and eventually got fed up with all the sh*t she gave me and didn't give much in return, so, for most of the summer that year I wasn't her friend. My family had thought of moving to Pittsburgh in 2 or 3 years, so that was some encouragement to drop her, but, I recently got a text from her, (she kept my number, and got a new phone number since she texted me even though I blocked her) and said she was sorry for being a d*ck, and now we're friends again, and we're gonna enter 8th grade soon. We're now back to staying up late to text each other. I really don't know if I should keep this relationship up or not, since I might get attached to her again, but I really like talking to her and spending time with her. Any advice on what to do?