Confusing Guy.... IDEK

[Cece_Bugg]

Hi:) So, Im in a situation that is very confusing....

I like this guy, lets call him... Fred(not his real name). Me and Fred have been talking for a while now, he goes to my church so I see him about every week....

Fred told me that he really likes me and I told him I like him too, but he cant date until he is 16(in a couple months)

Ever since we told each other we liked each other, he hasnt been talking to me in person at all!!

He has been talking to all these other girls but me, and he compliments them too, but not me! And when I walk up to him to talk, he walks away from me!! Like who does that??

I talked to my friend and she said that fred is just being immature and i should just not try with him...

My other friend just thinks he is nervous and I should talk to him about it....

Do you all agree?

Then, we went to Cedar Point(An amazing park known as Roller Coaster Central) and before we went i asked him who he was ganna hang out with and he said his best friend who is Billy(not his real name)

So, I decide to hang out with Billy, but noook, Fred decides to hang out with this group of girls instead, so i hang out with Billy, John(not his real name), and Jeff(not his real name)

John and Jeff are brothers btw, john is 13 jeff is 15(my age).

Then jeff and john start calling dibs on who gets to ride with me and stuff, it was really fun, and I got to know Jeff, he is really funny, nice, and amazing!! And i think i might like him....

Idk if i should go for Jeff or Fred.... but idk if Jeff likes me back or not....

Its just so confusing!! Idek anymore

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Well, by the sounds of it, you may just be crushing, really. Relationships isn't something you can go down a list. You can't cross out your first preference, then go to your second, third, forth, etc.

Give yourself some time possibly. If you allow yourself to not talk to them for a week, you sometimes realise you don't particularly like them anymore, just as a friend.

As for your "Fred is ignoring me" thing, if it's bugging you, you should ask him about it, because there are many reasons why he could be not talking to you. He might not want anything more to happen (yet), he might not like you anymore, he might find it a bit embarrassing that he's told you, as so forth.

I would just leave everything as it is and just forget about them, but if you still like Fred/Jeff, then you should get to know them more.

All the best~ c:

[Living For Love]

I think you should try to clarify that issue with Fred, because it's not really nice of him to ignore you that way, especially after you both confessed you liked each other. About Jeff, maybe it's just a minor crush, because you met him on that park, it seems you didn't know him very well, yet liking someone right after meeting them is totally different than when you develop feelings for someone you've known for a longer period of time, so I guess you don't really have much chances with him. You could always keep in touch with him and see how it goes, but for now, I'd suggest you talk to Fred and ask him why he's been behaving like that.

[sixguy6]

Well maybe "Fred" thought that he'd play hard to get because someone obvs told him that's a way to get girls and it obvs works 0% of the time. So maybe he thought he'd get you to time him by acting the way he was. Now as for the other guy, Jeff, you should tell him you like him and if he says he does then awesome! But if he doesn't then you always have Fred XD yeah ik kinda messed up to have a back up but hey, someone aught to like you;)

[chess123]

It might be that heist intimidated by the fact that you have similar feelings and he is worried that will become too attached and that your feelings may change I a couple months.

[Gumleaf]

I don't think there is any clear cut reason he is doing this, and speculating doesn't help much. Perhaps you should just ask him about it and tell him how you feel? I know its not an easy conversation to have, but at least that way you aren't worrying about it and letting it get to you.