Sex

[dudesweet101]

So me and my girlfriend are both virgins and like we went to have sex the other day and I couldnt get my penis to in her vagina. Its just really tight. I tried fingering her alittle then tried it just wont go in. I dont want to just shove it in. Will she bleed alot when i get it in?

[Sugaree]

Well if she's still a virgin the hymen will not have stretched out yet which makes it easier for your penis to go in.

fingering doesn't help very much to open it up. What needs to happen is that you need to go in slow. Don't shove it in, or that will cause bleeding. So just make sure that you take it easy

[Underground_Network]

^^ Since when were you a "sexpert". J/k :P

Anyways, most of what Matt said is true, but be aware, no matter how easily you try to get your penis into her vagina, there may be bleeding (because it is her first time). So don't be shocked or freaked out by the site of blood. Don't think that you seriously hurt her if there is blood (because you MOST likely didn't). Now I'm a virgin as well, but still, just be careful, and remember to use a condom. :D Don't want to get her pregnant do you?

[dudesweet101]

haha nah We bought a crap load of condom yesterday.

[Sugaree]

Since when were you a "sexpert".



It's called a book take a chance and read it :P:P:P:P

Yes make sure you do use condoms! Just use one. If you use more than one then it makes more friction which will not be good.

And when you are done using the condom and still want to go at it, then go and put another condom on and not use the original one because then it can burst and all that sperm falls in all the wrong places.

If you want more info please go to the thread ***A guide to safer Sex*** (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=15209)

Hope that helped ;)

[Allison]

Well actually the hymen can break from things like horseback riding, using tampons, etc.

But anyways, it sounds like your girlfriend's hymen hasn't. And since it hasn't there will be blood and some pain, so just make sure you have supplies to clean it up.

Make sure to go slowly, softly!

[andrew1234]

well just to be safe pute 20 condems on at ounce

[Maverick]

Ummm no that won't make you any safer. Putting on more causes it to slide off.

Two methods of birth control - like condoms and having her the pill - are safer.

[The Pretender]

Just go in really slow she will be tight if she's still a virgin and yeah wearing a condom would be a smart idea.