What is the deal with me?

[Snydergate]

I am so confused about the matter. Here are the facts, I'm 19, longer brown hair, hazel eyes, on the skinnier side, and I would say I'm fairly good looking. I've never been in a relationship, never had a first kiss or anything, virgin. No girl in my area or anywhere has every showed the slightest interest in me, ever. Whenever I'm working and I am checking a good looking girl out at the register, they never show any interest in me. I am a genuinely nice person so I know im not a dick or anything, I am always as nice as possible to girls, but I get shit back. What's the deal?

[Deleted - 2020]

What do you mean you get shit back?

[Snydergate]

What do you mean you get shit back? By that I mean they are either rude to me or don't say anything at all

[Deleted - 2020]

:S thats just bizarre :S aha are you sure you cant think or anything that could have happened to explain it? :S

like idk maybe a few of them might have crushes on you but you can't tell?

[dreamofdante]

I am so confused about the matter. Here are the facts, I'm 19, longer brown hair, hazel eyes, on the skinnier side, and I would say I'm fairly good looking. I've never been in a relationship, never had a first kiss or anything, virgin. No girl in my area or anywhere has every showed the slightest interest in me, ever. Whenever I'm working and I am checking a good looking girl out at the register, they never show any interest in me. I am a genuinely nice person so I know im not a dick or anything, I am always as nice as possible to girls, but I get shit back. What's the deal?

I saw your picture and you are a good looking guy so really I don't understand your problem at all. Do you ask any girls out? I'm in a similar rut but I'm ugly.

[Snydergate]

:S thats just bizarre :S aha are you sure you cant think or anything that could have happened to explain it? :S

like idk maybe a few of them might have crushes on you but you can't tell?

I know of absolutely nothing to explain it, most girls I meet I have never seen before

I saw your picture and you are a good looking guy so really I don't understand your problem at all. Do you ask any girls out? I'm in a similar rut but I'm ugly.

I don't ask girls out unless they show interest and for the past 10 years I have seen no interest, this might be due to the fact that my area is filled with jocky douchebags and they all fall for them

[dreamofdante]

I know of absolutely nothing to explain it, most girls I meet I have never seen before



I don't ask girls out unless they show interest and for the past 10 years I have seen no interest, this might be due to the fact that my area is filled with jocky douchebags and they all fall for them

You have to ask because sometimes girl don't show interest. I know what you mean though. I'm good at reading people and if they're not interested I don't bother.

[Snydergate]

You have to ask because sometimes girl don't show interest. I know what you mean though. I'm good at reading people and if they're not interested I don't bother.

As am I. I'm a can read people very well since I am more observant than anything. So I can tell when they show no interest

[dreamofdante]

As am I. I'm a can read people very well since I am more observant than anything. So I can tell when they show no interest

I'm sorry pal. I know how you feel. You're good looking so really I don't know.

[Snydergate]

I'm sorry pal. I know how you feel. You're good looking so really I don't know.

Yeah thats why Im so confused about this

[dreamofdante]

Yeah thats why Im so confused about this

So am I man haha

[CassnovA]

maybe youre being too clingy to people who you get close with. if they dont want u in that way, move on. u think youre decent looking so go out and socialise irl and not online, and dont get attached to people that dont want the same thing as u.

[Snydergate]

maybe youre being too clingy to people who you get close with. if they dont want u in that way, move on. u think youre decent looking so go out and socialise irl and not online, and dont get attached to people that dont want the same thing as u.

I thank you for your words, but I have never had anyone to get clingy with so I wouldn't know