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Pulp501
August 7th, 2014, 07:35 PM
The last few times we've talked, it's ended with her being pissed at me for no reason. At least if she has a reason, she won't tell me. When I asked her why she's been getting mad at me she said she wasn't mad even though she clearly was. Then she said I was just annoying, but still won't tell me what I do to be annoying. I know I might sound defensive, but I'm not annoying. She's just too easily annoyed. She needs to lower her standards of people. She expects everyone around her to be perfect. And when I try to talk to her about this, she just gets mad. She won't acknowledge that she may be at fault at all. She won't even talk about it. I try to talk about how we can fix our friendship but she just gets mad and acts like nothing is wrong. This happened a while ago, where she would get annoyed really often, and then act like it was ago, and then one day she just stopped talking to me. We didn't talk for a year. I don't want that to happen again, but the way things are going it's gonna happen again. How do I get her to work with me to fix this? I feel like she doesn't even care. A week ago we were talking about having her move in, and she acted like I was her best friend, and right now she acts like she could care less if we are friends.

Blood
August 7th, 2014, 07:45 PM
Well quite frankly it doesn't look like she wants to fix it. Why are you trying to save this relationship when she's treating you this way? Move on and find better people to surround yourself with.

Pulp501
August 7th, 2014, 08:17 PM
Well quite frankly it doesn't look like she wants to fix it. Why are you trying to save this relationship when she's treating you this way? Move on and find better people to surround yourself with.

She's my only friend, most of the time she isn't like this, if I can fix it I want to.

Blood
August 7th, 2014, 09:49 PM
She's my only friend, most of the time she isn't like this, if I can fix it I want to.

Even if she is your only friend, you shouldn't want to be her friend just for that reason. It's better to have no one than to have someone who treats you like shit.

The only advice I can give you is to try to get her to sit down so you can tell her exactly how you feel, and ask her why she's been acting the way she has. Let her know how much it hurts you that she treats you this way and tell her that it needs to change, because you're not going to stick around just to get treated wrongly.