Sex dreams confusing

[darkangel91]

Sometimes I have sexual dreams in which I am with a group of presumably gay or bi guys, naked and vaguely sexual, and I'm attracted to them - no problem. It's like a bunch of friends with benefits. But sometimes this dream is different, with a girl or two there as well, nude or topless. And here's the weird confusing part - in the dreams I'm as attracted to the girls as to the guys. But in waking life, I consider myself gay... I'm nearly always attracted to guys in real life, unless they're ugly or unpleasant in some other way, and rarely to girls... but sometimes, when I see a pretty girl of certain types, I get a vague emotional feeling that mirrors the more directly sexual feelings in dreams...

I guess what I'm trying to say is, am I a bi? Or just crazy?

[Blood]

You may be bi - just more attracted to males than females. It's not uncommon for bisexuals to have a preference of one gender over the other.

[UnknownError]

Like Blood say, you could be bisexual. Or it could just be a dream. Dreams dont mean anything really and you shouldn't worry about them too much.

[JakePaiv]

I believe I kniw what your talking about. I get dreams like you do, with sometimes a random girl ire two popping into a sex dream with a guy or guys. For the longest time I thought I was bi because of it. Well, after awhile I realIzed that the desires in my dreams didn't match how I felt in real life. I know more that the girls I'm mt streams no longer appear sexually and that ur was definitely just a phase to get me where I truly belong. Now this doesn't necessarily mean the same for you, but I thought it might be helpful if I shared my dreams that I used to have as well. Now I know for sure that I'm gay.

[darkangel91]

Thanks guys. I'm pretty sure I'm gay, I just wanted to check... maybe someday I'll experiment with a girl, and find out for sure, eh? xD

[Unde4dmau5]

If you want my opinion, I think its just hormones. But then again, you could be bi. But I would say it is just hormones. Sexual dreams are confusing anyways. I wouldn't base my sexuality on just dreams alone. It just seems like hormones to me. Its crazy what the brain can come up with in it's subconscious state. But that is an entirely different topic. :P

[AdamS]

Maybe it's your mind suggestin "wouldnt it be easier if i was straight ?"
kinda natural with the negative feelings of a lot of the world to bein gay.
I dont think dreams are literal

[KidStalion]

I would say ur bi but thats just me

[ksdnfkfr]

I like what I read on a forum once that went something like....dreams are meaningless, once I had a wet dream that I was fucking a pig.

[darkangel91]

Ha - I once had one where I was with a female horse, so I get what you're saying. It's not just dreams exactly, I get an emotional, but not physical, feeling of attraction to girls sometimes. Sort of like I'm gay, but some deep part of me wants to be bi, but just isn't. Like its more of a futile wish than an actual feeling of attraction.

As usual though, I overthink everything. XD