Ideal for Society is not Ideal for Me.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

When I look at the guys that a stereotypical guy is supposed to be aroused by, I get...disgusted. The six-pack, unreasonably well endowed, clean shaven dream boy look is a huge turn off to me, I like my men with facial hair, a beard a mustache, something that feels scruffy when I kiss him, I like my guys bigger, obesity (unless it's morbid obesity) is a huge turn on for me, it makes a guy big, strong and cuddly, rather than just a sack of bones.

Does anyone else just NOT like the society's ideal of the "perfect" boyfriend or girlfriend?

[Melodic]

Honestly, I don't really care what society portrays as the perfect boyfriend. In the end of things, I'm the one dating him, not them.

[phuckphace]

I don't like cookie-cutter blond twinks either but obesity is unhealthy and disgusting. a fat guy is going to have a lot of circulating estrogen that causes moobs and small dick, in addition to other stuff like gluttonous eating habits and less energy. all of the overweight teenagers I know have breathing/sleep problems, joint/back pain and almost no energy at work (where it's required to lift up to 50 pounds on a regular basis). even moderate physical exertion gets them breathing and panting heavily. it just seems like a miserable way to be and I would find it impossible to be happy with anything if I were in their shoes.

tl;dr - although we shouldn't follow or care about Hollywood's ideals, obesity (even moderate) is unhealthy no matter what and needs to be addressed with assistance and therapy whenever it occurs.

[unknownuser]

I kinda agree with phuckphace up there ^^^; neither extreme, underweight or overweight is particularly attractive to me (or healthy for that matter).

I personally do tend to like kinda scruffy natural-lookin guys, not super clean and polished up. But those are just personal preferences, wouldn't judge someone based on their looks alone.

[conniption]

Yeah, guys with no body hair just don't do it for me. I like scruff and a bit of chest hair. Also, I'm not into overly muscly guys. Being toned is good enough, or even a bit meaty. I don't know that's just me.

However, I really don't care what they look like, as these are simply preferences. Date who ever you want.

[Cognizant]

I don't like cookie-cutter blond twinks either but obesity is unhealthy and disgusting. a fat guy is going to have a lot of circulating estrogen that causes moobs and small dick, in addition to other stuff like gluttonous eating habits and less energy. all of the overweight teenagers I know have breathing/sleep problems, joint/back pain and almost no energy at work (where it's required to lift up to 50 pounds on a regular basis). even moderate physical exertion gets them breathing and panting heavily. it just seems like a miserable way to be and I would find it impossible to be happy with anything if I were in their shoes.

tl;dr - although we shouldn't follow or care about Hollywood's ideals, obesity (even moderate) is unhealthy no matter what and needs to be addressed with assistance and therapy whenever it occurs.
Amen.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

I don't like cookie-cutter blond twinks either but obesity is unhealthy and disgusting. a fat guy is going to have a lot of circulating estrogen that causes moobs and small dick, in addition to other stuff like gluttonous eating habits and less energy. all of the overweight teenagers I know have breathing/sleep problems, joint/back pain and almost no energy at work (where it's required to lift up to 50 pounds on a regular basis). even moderate physical exertion gets them breathing and panting heavily. it just seems like a miserable way to be and I would find it impossible to be happy with anything if I were in their shoes.

tl;dr - although we shouldn't follow or care about Hollywood's ideals, obesity (even moderate) is unhealthy no matter what and needs to be addressed with assistance and therapy whenever it occurs.

What can I say, it's just one of my insane sexual fetishes that drive my sexual deviancy through the roof. I can't change it, and I'm happy to have it.

[Miserabilia]

If you really like obesity well that's just your fetish man, there's nothing wrong with it as long as you're not promoting it as lifestyle or whatever