Problem with my friend

[Ryskil]

Umm. First, english is not my first language.
Ok. So, my situation is little weird. I mean, year ago I started first year of high school. I quickly became friends with some people and one girl. I and her became really good friends. Some time after we started to be friends she started to act, hmm... a little weird. I mean, she started to act like she, you know, "likes me".

And uh.. some time ago I found out that she really, really likes me(I'm her crush and so on and maybe she even...ummmm...loves me....?). Btw she doesn't know that I found out that. And here starts stupid part. I think that she would like to be my gf but I'm not sure if I wanna be her bf. I mean, I really like to spend time with her and so on but I'm not sure if I wanna be in relationship with her. Well. She is shy and a little withdrawn, also she doesn't go out of her house often. During this holidays she went out with me only two times.

And well. The problem is, I'm not sure if I should start relationship with her because it took some time for her to be a little more confident and talk more and so on and because I'm not sure I don't want it to be in time like "Oh. It looks like it was bad idea. Bye"
because i don't want to hurt her and I don't want her to be so shy and withdrawn again. Also me and our friends are her only friends at school. It would be awkward for her to stay near me after that or sad to stay alone. It probably sounds stupid....

[LouBerry]

If you don't think you like her that way and can't see yourself in a relationship with her, then you would be doing both her and yourself a disservice by asking her out. Don't start something where there is nothing to start, it's almost cruel. Let her know gently that you don't want anything besides friendship, and move on.

[Ryskil]

If you don't think you like her that way and can't see yourself in a relationship with her, then you would be doing both her and yourself a disservice by asking her out. Don't start something where there is nothing to start, it's almost cruel. Let her know gently that you don't want anything besides friendship, and move on.

Uh. Yeah. I know. But there is something that I think I should write about earlier. Sooo.... when we were on bus once there were really many people so she had nothing to grab. So she was holding my arm(not hand, just arm. and she was kinda hugging to my arm) and then I don't know why but I could not stop smiling. I was just staing there and smiling like idiot and I could not stop. Also I should write about that even I'm not sure about all this, since I started to think that she likes me I started to really care about her(I even protected her once from bullying and it was first time when I ever protected someone). But still I don't feel anything special for her. I dunno. Maybe I'm just acting like moron eHe.