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Blood_Thorn
August 6th, 2014, 05:55 AM
As any other hormonal teenager going through puberty, I have a libido, but I find the urges really annoying and just hate them, and the only way to get rid of them is to imasturbate, which is never enjoyable and feels bad, and afterwards it always makes me frel horrible... Is this a bad thing? and does anyone else feel this way?
thermid
August 6th, 2014, 11:39 AM
It sounds like youre feeling guilty....the same used to happen to me
The important thing to remember is that youre not bad or weird or gross for masturbating :) once you do it often enough you start to forget about all those feelings of guilt!!
chiisaiaoiryu
August 6th, 2014, 05:01 PM
yeah, that's a perfectly normal feeling. I'm guessing you're like around 13 or so; that feeling's bound to happen right after masturbating. It's just your body's reaction to having come down from such a great sexual high. Over time, that feeling will disappear, but it's true that it's pretty annoying to be feeling that way. So don't worry about it, you're perfectly normal in feeling like that.
Blood_Thorn
August 7th, 2014, 12:33 AM
It sounds like youre feeling guilty....the same used to happen to me
The important thing to remember is that youre not bad or weird or gross for masturbating :) once you do it often enough you start to forget about all those feelings of guilt!!

yeah, that's a perfectly normal feeling. I'm guessing you're like around 13 or so; that feeling's bound to happen right after masturbating. It's just your body's reaction to having come down from such a great sexual high. Over time, that feeling will disappear, but it's true that it's pretty annoying to be feeling that way. So don't worry about it, you're perfectly normal in feeling like that.

I'm actually 18... and while you describe a "great sexual high" I don't actually ever feel like that afterwards, I get no feeling of bliss or euphoria with orgasm. The only bit that feels okay, is not having to take care of urges again for a while. It just makes me feel horrible, and guilty, it just makes me feel disgusted with myself and my own body...