Am I gay?

[Cauan]

I'm a dude. I always thought I was straight, but in my early teens (11, 12yo) I started to have feelings to other boys, too. Now I'm 19 and nothing's changed. But then I thought that maybe I'm just atracted to men because I have never had sex or dated someone, and that makes me wanna try it with both men and women. Is it possible that I'm just a straight guy in a bad phase or I'm definitely bi? I'm so confused... Sorry if I'm too old for this forum, I just don't have anybody I can talk to.

[nascar_alex]

After reading some posts here I read that this common during puberty. Now you said your 19 so you most likly are, but did you finish puberty.

[Hideous]

There's nothing wrong with experimenting, see if you like it, try it with a variety (not saying to do it with too many people) but everybody is different when it comes to sex and relationships. Yes, even at 19 you can still be confused, it doesn't all happen only during puberty. If you do or don't like it, that's when you'll know what you are. Don't jump to conclusions with your sexual orientation, take it slow.

[Jaseblader]

Don't worry about it man, your straight curious

[hockeyfan]

I think ur curious or bisexual.

[ComfortableInChaos]

You might be bi, but you're definitely curious. It's normal to experiment and there's nothing wrong with trying other things out to see how you like it. I'm all for experimentation, tbqh.

[dame]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

[Wyatt 13]

I think you need to try both dude and then u get a better opinion of yourself

[Cauan]

The only problem I have about this "experimenting" thing is that I'm too shy and also not very attractive (if I weren't like this, I guess I wouldn't be a virgin at 19yo). But thanks anyway, for the help.

[MatiasKun]

Try both , depending on what u like the most u will define ur sexuality . Or maybe just be bi :)

[AdamS]

Labels are lame anyway. You like who you like. As long as you like each other isnt that what matters?
Maybe you can just keep your options open and find someone that makes you feel special?

[shaune]

Enjoy both,when u are older u Will know which is right. 4 u

[Noblob69]

Hey I'm 14 but like you can't really ask anyone.. Only you can really know that. :)