First time sex questions?

[Kelsiesiebert]

So me and my boyfriend started making out an it led to boob touching then he went down and fingered me until we had to quit because my parents came home. So tonight he took me up and asked what I wanted to do he wasn't pressuring me at all and I was like whatever you want so he pulled his you know out and said can I just put it in you once just so you can feel it ad I said ya so he kinda stuck it in once (enough to pop my cherry) maybe an inch then after he put it in once I told him to tak it out because he wasn't wearin protection so he did. Could I get pregnant from that he said he didn't cum an this was m first time and it was only in for a few seconds? My other question is he asked if I used birth control ad I said no and he said if your gonna fuck a guy you need birth control. There is no way in hell will my parent get it for me! I'm 18 and old enough to get it don't hey hav it at a drug store or Walmart? What's the best to get and I don't have insurance or go to the doctor and I'm nt saying anything to my parents.

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[Svan]

Yep, you could definitely get pregnant. It's likely that there was pre-cum on the tip, so... Yeah. You made a horrible decision.

[CharlieHorse]

1. Could you have gotten pregnant from that?
If you did, you would have your own story in the Guinness Book of World records for the fastest intercourse resulting in pregnancy.
So no. There's almost no way you could have gotten preggo if he didn't release any sperm. It doesn't hurt to try a pregnancy test anyway though.

you should probably ask your bf to get himself screened for STDs as well. you too.

2. Do ya need birth control? How do ya get it?

I'm assuming you mean "the pill".
It works like this:
"Progestogen negative feedback decreases the pulse frequency of gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH) release by the hypothalamus, which decreases the secretion of follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) and greatly decreases the secretion of luteinizing hormone (LH) by the anterior pituitary. Decreased levels of FSH inhibit follicular development, preventing an increase in estradiol levels. Progestogen negative feedback and the lack of estrogen positive feedback on LH secretion prevent a mid-cycle LH surge. Inhibition of follicular development and the absence of a LH surge prevent ovulation."

Ok did ya get all that? there's gonna be a test.

no :P

A doctor would prescribe it to you. Apparently most doctors will require a clinical breast and pelvic exam in order to write you this prescription.

But there are other forms (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birth_control) of contraception.
Condoms are popular, which can be bought just about anywhere. Schools sometimes give them out too.


I suggest you listen to a person with more experience other than me, however.

[Gumleaf]

Yep, you could definitely get pregnant. It's likely that there was pre-cum on the tip, so... Yeah. You made a horrible decision.

Although that is a fact it is possible, it's quite unlikely and you would have to be very unlucky to have become pregnant from just doing that. Chances are that now you've done it once you'll want to keep doing it. I think most couples find that. The person above me has some great suggestions, i'd just mention that you can go to the doctors discretely to be prescribed birth control pills. The other idea is for him to have condoms as well which could be easier then going to the doctors. Those are your main 2 options and i'd suggest you use one of them because you'll be playing with fire otherwise if you keep doing something similar without protection.

[Living For Love]

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[Kelsiesiebert]

Although that is a fact it is possible, it's quite unlikely and you would have to be very unlucky to have become pregnant from just doing that. Chances are that now you've done it once you'll want to keep doing it. I think most couples find that. The person above me has some great suggestions, i'd just mention that you can go to the doctors discretely to be prescribed birth control pills. The other idea is for him to have condoms as well which could be easier then going to the doctors. Those are your main 2 options and i'd suggest you use one of them because you'll be playing with fire otherwise if you keep doing something similar without protection.
I really want birth control but do I have to have insurance or whatever to go to te doctor or not?

[Southside]

I really want birth control but do I have to have insurance or whatever to go to te doctor or not?

You'd have to see a doctor of course, but I suggest you talk to your parents first.

[Gumleaf]

I really want birth control but do I have to have insurance or whatever to go to te doctor or not?

Well in that case I think condoms are your best option if you plan on having ongoing sex then. Just keep in mind that condoms won't give 100% protection (they have been known to break or slip off occasionally) so still take care. Condoms can be found at the supermarket, and if your supermarket has a self service checkout, they can be purchased very discretely. Hope that helps? :)

[hockeyfan]

Tell him to buy condoms next time....that is if ur not already pregnant

[Your Captain]

I am pretty sure they have it at every store. But I think its unlikely you got pregnant from that; but just in case you should use the birth control

[kristennn]

Yeah if you're not on birth control you could get pregnant from his pre-cum

[KidStalion]

Yeah u could get pregnat

[FullyAlive]

I think that's a bit rude honestly, he was the one who initiated that the least he could do was bring a condom. But I know the girl should be prepared too.

Yeah you need to go to a doctor to be prescribed one of the many methods of birth control the pill, implant etc. Or you could just go to a supermarket, or boots or pharmacy or something and buy condoms. But it depends how many you're going to end up getting through they can be expensive.


And whilst it's unlikely yes you could get pregnant from that little contact, stranger things have happened.

[AdamS]

just rmm condoms are not 100% either :D you're welcome ^^

[SammyG17]

1. Could you have gotten pregnant from that?
If you did, you would have your own story in the Guinness Book of World records for the fastest intercourse resulting in pregnancy.
So no. There's almost no way you could have gotten preggo if he didn't release any sperm. It doesn't hurt to try a pregnancy test anyway though.

you should probably ask your bf to get himself screened for STDs as well. you too.

2. Do ya need birth control? How do ya get it?

I'm assuming you mean "the pill".
It works like this:
"Progestogen negative feedback decreases the pulse frequency of gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH) release by the hypothalamus, which decreases the secretion of follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) and greatly decreases the secretion of luteinizing hormone (LH) by the anterior pituitary. Decreased levels of FSH inhibit follicular development, preventing an increase in estradiol levels. Progestogen negative feedback and the lack of estrogen positive feedback on LH secretion prevent a mid-cycle LH surge. Inhibition of follicular development and the absence of a LH surge prevent ovulation."

Ok did ya get all that? there's gonna be a test.

no :P

A doctor would prescribe it to you. Apparently most doctors will require a clinical breast and pelvic exam in order to write you this prescription.

But there are other forms (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birth_control) of contraception.
Condoms are popular, which can be bought just about anywhere. Schools sometimes give them out too.


I suggest you listen to a person with more experience other than me, however.

Pretty much this.

To the OP:
I'm not sure what country you are in, but in the states there are clinics called "planned parenthood." Without insurance these run $50-$150 a visit, depending on whats needing to be done. I don't like the pill, so I use the shot. My parents were cool and I started that at 13, but it runs about $90 every 3 months. 10 condoms = $15. Since you are 18, you won't need an adult to go with you to the planned parenthood check up. They can also talk to you about the numerous forms of birth control to find one right for you.

[Karkat]

Alright, first things first:

It is POSSIBLE to get pregnant off of pre-cum, however, it is UNLIKELY.

This isn't exactly "teenage girl stabbed after giving head gets pregnant miraculously" unlikely (Yes, this is a thing. It's not been 100% confirmed, as there's just so much crazy to the story, but apparently it's very plausible under the right conditions.), but it is unlikely.

Second, I'd have to agree that condoms are your best bet here, otherwise you will probably need to get a prescription from a doctor. There are also shots (I don't know how effective these are. My friend swears by them, but I've never had it done.), and IUDs (implants).

Also, your boyfriend is kind of a jerk, no offense. You don't have some weird obligation to be on birth control just because you're female. He needs to check his attitude... Sheesh.

[Buddy 912]

When you have sex, getting pregnant is always a possibility.

[Zsofia]

You should be damn unlucky to get pregnant from that. Others trying for years without success. There is a risk involved of course, but if you're in a relationship, you should go on pills or ask him to use condoms. To be honest most of my friends make "mistakes" like that. A LOT. Risky, but it's not easy to get pregnant. I'd prefer pills because it's more comfy and no need to worry during sex. You are well in the age so it shouldn't be any problem.