first date

[jjmcray]

ok so i made a post about this before... but the date i was talking about was canceled... long story...

anyway,
I'm going on a date with someone for the first time (i've never been on a date before) to the movies with a girl

im probably going to drive her there, so what should we talk about?
how do i keep a conversation going?
what should i do when we get there?
of course i will pay for her food and stuff...
what kind of movie should we watch?
when is the right time to "make a move" and put my arm around her shoulder or something?
what should i do when the movie is over?

[Malcolm Tucker]

One question at a time =P

im probably going to drive her there, so what should we talk about? Relax, dont panic. Find out about what she likes, and if you like too, it shouldn't be too hard.

how do i keep a conversation going?
Just keep talking and try not to say anything stupid. We've all had our 'Borat' Moments infront of a girl we like...

what should i do when we get there?of course i will pay for her food and stuff...
what kind of movie should we watch?
Something she likes, ask her what she want's to see. Don't force her into a slasher flick or a slapstick comedy. Find out what she want's to go see.

when is the right time to "make a move" and put my arm around her shoulder or something?
You know yourself when it's the right time. For more information consult: Your First French Kiss & Kissing Discussion (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=13855) for more information

what should i do when the movie is over?
Maybe go get something to eat. Again don't force her into anything.

Hope this helps

[jjmcray]

ok, should i buy her anything for before the date? as in flowers or something?

[ScotsGirl]

That would be really sweet :) however, its up to you. You dont have to.
Flowers arent always practical if you have to leave them in the car. Teddys are cute though...especially dogs! awwww :) LOL thats just a personal choice :lol3: haha!

Anyway, I agree with Michael! :yes:
Just relax.
How do you keep a conversation going? By keeping on opening your mouth and talking :P , or even better, by asking questions.
Don't worry about it though, if you are interested in her and what she does, then you will find it easy to ask things.

Anyway, I hope it goes well! Let us know! :D

xxx

[jjmcray]

ok but why would i have to leave them in the car lol

do you think its a good idea though? is it a bit too drastic for the very first date?

[ScotsGirl]

Sorry I just meant if you gave them to her in the car.

It is up to you what you do though :) Just relax, and go with it.
Every girl is different, so I have no idea if she would want you to get something or not.

My thinking, I wouldnt expect it at all. However, if you got something, I would definitely appreciate it. :)

xxx

[jay92]

ok my advice:

-pay for her ticket (buy her whatever she wants)
-try to be funny but dont make an ass off yourself (be playfull)
-go to a horror flick (she will get scared, put arm rest up an cuddle (making her feel secure))
-and buy a cool car, if she loves the car she wants more rides therefore more dates ;)
and by cool car i mean pre70's no japcrap!

[jjmcray]

... you are acting like i am rich and can just go out and buy a car whenever... lol
plus I already got a nice car, and she likes it (it's japanese btw :P)

[jay92]

as long as ya dont got neons and a big spoila to keep it straight when doing over 50km/h then its fine...

[jjmcray]

lol yeah and also, how can we watch a horror movie if they are rated R (we are both 16)

[jay92]

well saw was MA wasnt it?
pity its not in the movies now, i went ages ago and got up to go the the bathroom and my girlfriend clawed my arm and threw me back into my seat, didnt let go the whole movie hahaah

take her to something she would want to see, romantic comdies make me wanna puke but they love them