Is it normal to have a huge disdain for your mother?

[Danny Phantom]

Okay so the past four years, I've been growing a steady disdain for my mother. She makes a lot of things about herself. Often bossing me around (or attempting to). She is really callous, everything she says is overly negative and has a hint of misery. She calls me demeaning names too. It seems like nothing is ever enough for her. I cleaned our whole apartment today and instead of saying thanks, she criticized me. I even told her how I have three job interviews this week and said she doesn't care. If I ever tell her a bit about myself, which seldom happens, she'll ignore me or criticize it. She makes me ask her each time I want to eat or drink, but allows me to go out whenever I want because I'm such a huge issue for her when I actually am home. She's really not understanding at all, I often complained about a near three hour commute during high school and did nothing to fix it. All of our conversations have agression it seems. She is like this with everyone I know. Once she moves out, I'll be living here alone and much better off. Is there anything I should do to fix this? This aggression towards her is on my mind everyday and it is getting to me.