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Soccerkid28
August 3rd, 2014, 04:15 PM
I've liked this girl for over a year now and I'm extremely nervous about asking her out. Me and her are good friends and I don't want to mess that up but I like her so much. I've been to the movies and Carowinds which is an amusement park with her a couple times but it was never just me and her. This past school year we hung out at school without any of our other friends with us more than the year before but I've never hung out with her alone outside of school. Sometime it seems like she likes me but other times it seems like she is no where near wanting to date me. Just this past week I asked her for advice on how I should ask a girl out and I planned on using that advice on her. And a couple nights ago just before I went I sleep I asked god for a sign as to whether I should ask her out and then went on to ask if that sign could be a dream with her in it and that night. So I'm planning on asking her out in the near future but am still really nervous. I just wanted to know if you all think I should do it. And how should I do it? Like should I say "Will you go out with me?" Or should I say "Will you be my girlfriend?" And if she rejects me how do I react? And i am only 15 so i cant drive yet.

Stronk Serb
August 3rd, 2014, 04:53 PM
First ask her out. Get to know her well and the opposite. If you are good together, ask her to be your girlfriend.

Gumleaf
August 3rd, 2014, 06:39 PM
Well the first thing I would say is don't ask God for signs. I only say that because you're so hyped for what you want, your mind will turn anything remotely connected with her into a positive sign. Just a thought. Also, my suggestion is to ask her on a 'date' first. My reason for this is then she would obviously know then that you're interested and if that goes well, then great, but if not, it might make your friendship awkward for a short time, but at least you still have your good friend.