Emotionally Lazy

[TheHNC]

Hey guys,

I'm reaching out to you because I can't keep this to myself anymore..
I need to vent.
Let's start at the beginning.

A few months ago, I hung out with this girl I knew a little from class at a little party. We were both having a great time, and as time went on we got real close to each other. We started having lots of fun alone, and everybody around us noticed we were constantly laughing at each other, and just having a blast. Later that night we slept next to each other and cuddled a little bit.
The day after the party she immediately talked to me on Facebook telling me she wanted to hang out again, so I agreed and took her to a movie. We didn't have that much time together, so it wasn't that great, but she still wanted to meet up again.

And that's the position I'm in now. Before you get all 'That's perfect, why are you reaching out to us?' I have some questions, that's why I'm writing this.

I don't know if it's worth it all to make the effort of meeting her again, and I don't know if I'm willing (hence the title) I know she's a really kind and sweet girl, but I don't know if a relation could go somewhere.. :( Everytime I think about it, I'm not in the mood to go on a date with her..

The first time I had fun with her (at the party) was under the influence of alcohol (fake social skills?) So I don't know how real this experience was..

I don't know what to do guys, I hope you can give me some insights. Am I just an asshole for doubting so much?

I don't know how to put it, I'm just so confused... :confused:

[Living For Love]

I don't know your age, but maybe you're just not ready to commit to a serious relationship. You can just keep hanging out with her, like friends, but if you really don't want to engage in anything more serious, I think you should try to tell her as soon as possible, so that she doesn't have false expectations.

[TheHNC]

I guess you're right :) Thanks for the reply, this was the kind of advice I was looking for.

I'm 17...